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is revenge ever justified?

what if that persons life was destroyed and unrepairable?

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

This is a personal thing, ultimatly what ever you feel is right is right. There are no laws when it comes to morals.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 148 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Don’t go overboard about it though, then the fuzz will get involved

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

you don’t think committing a sin to avenge a sin is wrong

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Yeah then ther are laws lol

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Eye for an eye.

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Personally I think sin is a stupid word. Covers far to wide a range of actions.

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

what if what the people did to the victim was not against the law but still ruined that persons life and the only revenge that person could take would ruin their life

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corsair offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

what if you really dislike someone, and want to say something, but don’t because you know then you’ll just feel dejected and no one cares anyway? any thoughts on what you do then?

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

is it someone you have to be around

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

The law of the land is something you gotta respect. Still there are plenty of ways to make some ones life a living hell with out ending up in jail..

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

dare i ask

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

d.y.i I’m guessing you wanna kill some one or hurt them real bad? Can I ask what they did? And what you would do if you could?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 148 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

order several stripograms in his name on his anniversery

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Male ones

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

i’m in a similar predicament currently.
someone recently has been the root of all my suffering.
they have had a hand at destroying everything possible of sentiment.
stolen cherished belongings, ruining a relationship between my father and I, and now have killed my cat but yet they’re acting coy.

whatever you do, don’t do it hastily.
give that someone enough rope to hang themselves and then pull the lever to that trap door.
…but remember, an eye for an eye leaves the world blind.

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Omfg they killed your cat? How do you know it was them?

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

no im not some physco looking to kill anybody i promise, as far as what happened check my old posts. Im sorry about your cat. Like the stripo gram idea lol

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

they put 80lb DOG flea drops on my 6lb persian.
it’s a long story.

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corsair offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

yes, this is a person close to where i sit at work.

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Belief offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Roslindale, MA, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

I believe to an extant in an eye for an eye.

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

but dude, about killing someone, i never thought that.
being vindictive is a creative process but yet it’s like a fine wine.
it can and may take a while to drink it, but you’ll find a way to taste victory.

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

corsair wrote:
yes, this is a person close to where i sit at work.

i work with someone in a simular situation and fri. we had it out after i had had enough and basically told her to olny communicate with me if its work related. It may be easier for you to just pretend like you are cool with her and not let her get to you

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

i used to believe in karma and what goes around comes around thing but i havn’t seen much proof of that

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

the worst part about it is that the people responsible did care what they were doing, knew what would happen did it anyway and have now lived happily ever after for the past 8 years

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 148 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

What happened though?

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

sometimes you are part of karma.
what they get, if it’s by your doing, could be the bad karma that they needed to recieve.
all karma **** aside, being based on what goes around comes around…they threw the f’n ball, now throw it back.

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

very long story but its in previous posts, bits anyways

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Proxy-Moron wrote:
sometimes you are part of karma.what they get, if it’s by your doing, could be the bad karma that they needed to recieve.all karma **** aside, being based on what goes around comes around…they threw the f’n ball, now throw it back.

eaiser said than done without ruing my life

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corsair offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

well, this is a guy i use to work with when i first started off. but this guy was a complete idiot, and didn’t really help me at all. i was always trying to figure out crap for him and explain stuff to him that he should already have known realizing that he’s been with the company for so long. what sucks is this guy still sits pretty close to where i sit, and it’s annoying the hell out of me. i can’t believe he’s still employed, considering one of my friends who is hard working just got let go.

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

it must have been uber harsh, then.
I’m sorry. you’re right. it is easier said than done.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 148 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

corsair wrote:
well, this is a guy i use to work with when i first started off. but this guy was a complete idiot, and didn’t really help me at all. i was always trying to figure out crap for him and explain stuff to him that he should already have known realizing that he’s been with the company for so long. what sucks is this guy still sits pretty close to where i sit, and it’s annoying the hell out of me. i can’t believe he’s still employed, considering one of my friends who is hard working just got let go.

Just inform upper management what a waste of space he is.

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Proxy-Moron wrote:
it must have been uber harsh, then.I’m sorry. you’re right. it is easier said than done.

its cool i appreciate the honesty

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

corsair wrote:
well, this is a guy i use to work with when i first started off. but this guy was a complete idiot, and didn’t really help me at all. i was always trying to figure out crap for him and explain stuff to him that he should already have known realizing that he’s been with the company for so long. what sucks is this guy still sits pretty close to where i sit, and it’s annoying the hell out of me. i can’t believe he’s still employed, considering one of my friends who is hard working just got let go.
Just inform upper management what a waste of space he is.

does he specially annoy you on purpose or is he just a #$%@ stick

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corsair offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

i don’t have any justification. i should have probably gone to management when i was directly working with the guy. my mistake there. he’s just really irritating. i do not speak with him at all. can’t stand it…he tries to make coy jokes, but they’re really just dumb not impressive at all.

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

quote]its cool i appreciate the honesty[/quote]
It’s going to fester in you, though.
I know.
I came through a situation not too long ago.
My angst is still festering.
Long story, too.
…but I didn’t ever think I’d be just talking so casual about it. it’s wierd.

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Proxy-Moron wrote:
quote]its cool i appreciate the honesty

It’s going to fester in you, though.I know.I came through a situation not too long ago.My angst is still festering.Long story, too….but I didn’t ever think I’d be just talking so casual about it. it’s wierd.[/quote]

trust me i know its been festering for 8 years. iwas a little weirded about brining it up on here to be honest with you, but i think its something a lot of people can relate to and are made to feel like freaks if they talk about it

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corsair offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

actually, the real reason i posted here is because this guy keeps talking with someone i thought i could trust and thought of as a mentor. but since they work together, he keeps chatting with her, and i feel kind of ignored. but this guy is a total idiot and asks stupid questions (seems like to flirt) just to keep talking, which is what really fumes me.

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

corsair wrote:
i don’t have any justification. i should have probably gone to management when i was directly working with the guy. my mistake there. he’s just really irritating. i do not speak with him at all. can’t stand it…he tries to make coy jokes, but they’re really just dumb not impressive at all.

is it possible to sit some where else, probably a dumb ? huh

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corsair offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

it’s not because the rest of my team that i actually do work with is close too. i’d feel real awkward doing so too.

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Proxy-Moron offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

I mean, it isn’t like eating a baby?
then again, they do that in this one remote part of asia, right?

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d.y.l. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Proxy-Moron wrote:
I mean, it isn’t like eating a baby?then again, they do that in this one remote part of asia, right?

id prefer the eggroll

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