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If your gut feeling is that it would be too much for you, you are probably right. I would say keep things professional and friendly and find someone else who is better suited for you.

It’s usually not a good idea to date someone you work with. I’m not saying don’t do it, but you might want to check your company’s rules on employees dating each other (especially if she’s your supervisor), just to make sure you don’t get in trouble, or fired, if her boss finds out.

yea i should probably do that first

If you need to be a few years older for her to go out with her, where would any kind of relationship lead?
Seems that you are at a dissadvantage to start with.

If you need to be a few years older before she will go out with you, what’s the point of pursuing the matter?

i feel she said that because she thinks im immature, but if anything shes too mature. Im only 20 i think im aloud to have some fun once in a while and so should she.

Yes, you are allowed to have fun once in a while. Just make sure the fun you have now doesn’t lead to problems down the line.

(speaking from experience) do not go there with a workmate!!!!!!
You have no idea how awkward it can get.

If she thinks you are too immature and you think she is too mature, I don’t really know why you would consider risking your job for something that probably won’t work out. And besides that, she HAS to be mature- she has two babies and a career to think about- she probably doens’t have alot of free time either being a single mother. To me, it doesn’t sound like anything that you are ready for, just to be honest. I would leave it alone so you don’t regret it and so you don’t risk her job as well knowing she has little ones to take care of.