friends help: So I was in the hallway today and I saw my best friend.

JennyLove

Malakoff, A8, FR

So I was in the hallway today and I saw my best friend.

I waved and said “Hi” to him but he ignored me. So I saw him in the hallway twice more and both times nothing. I decided to give him a hug (we always hug eachother). But he didnt do anything! No smile, no hi he basically just continued on! Is this a sign of something? Help!

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:kay: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

sounds like hes being a jerk. maybe he thinks u did something bad, that u didnt actually do. u should ask him about it

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JennyLove 0 #
Malakoff, A8, FR | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

:kay: wrote:
sounds like hes being a jerk. maybe he thinks u did something bad, that u didnt actually do. u should ask him about it

Hes not talking to me tho.

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theresape 6 #
Waltham, MA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Sounds like he was distracted by something. Don’t worry about it if it was a one-time thing. If he behaves strangely again the next time you see him, you might want to invite him to tell you if something is bothering him. Noticed I said “invite,” not “demand.” He may have something on his mind that he DOESN’T want to talk about. Give him a little space.

And good luck.

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bobsega #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

kill him

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Anonymous #
4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

it might be and it might not be…you gotta take into consideration that people are affected by their experiences differently. Give him time and don’t make any assumptions until you know whats really going on.

JennyLove 0 #
Malakoff, A8, FR | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

theresape wrote:
Sounds like he was distracted by something. Don’t worry about it if it was a one-time thing. If he behaves strangely again the next time you see him, you might want to invite him to tell you if something is bothering him. Noticed I said “invite,” not “demand.” He may have something on his mind that he DOESN’T want to talk about. Give him a little space.

And good luck.

I saw him four times today and he never did anything. He was fine to his other friends completely normal actully.

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:kay: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

that may be a bit harsh

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clashcity19 34 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

maybe he has a crush on you and is being immature.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

clashcity19 wrote:
maybe he has a crush on you and is being immature.

yea this can happen sometimes

JennyLove 0 #
Malakoff, A8, FR | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

clashcity19 wrote:
maybe he has a crush on you and is being immature.

That is not possible we promised that we would stay friends after he broke my heart about a few months ago..on valetines day! Plus I like someone and he likes this other girl.

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theresape 6 #
Waltham, MA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Well, JennyLove, in that case, you might want to address it. If I were you, I would do it in a non-threatening way, though, minimizing the drahhma. For example, I might send him an e-mail saying something like, “Robbie, I tried to capture your attention several times today, but I didn’t feel like I was getting through to you. Is something wrong? Can I do anything to help?”

And then I’d wait for him to respond–no pouncing and no dramatics.

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clashcity19 34 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I see, well something must have happened that you are not aware of.

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bobsega #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

i vote for kill him

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theresape 6 #
Waltham, MA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Yeah, we heard you the first time, Bobsega. But we’re not there yet.

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JennyLove 0 #
Malakoff, A8, FR | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

bobsega wrote:
i vote for kill him

But he is still my best friend. And I love him I just dont know why he is acting like this.

Help me with: I like this guy whos friends with my other friends he knows i like him but we dont know eachother that much.

JennyLove edited this post 4 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

So I was in the hallwat today and I saw my best friend. I waved and said “Hi” to him but he ignored me. So I saw him in the hallway twice more and both times nothing. I decided to give him a hug (we always hug eachother). But he didnt do anything! No smile, no hi he basically just continued on! Is this a sign of something? Help!

Help me with: I like this guy whos friends with my other friends he knows i like him but we dont know eachother that much.

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