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**** I never thought it would happen to me!

So I’m in the middle of what feels like a heavily orchestrated, ******** situation. Basically my best friend is going out with my ex. My ex broke up with me kind of harshly and I think shes doing this out of spite but I would never have Imagined my Friend doing this!
I dont know if I should be mad either because he just got out of a ****** situation with his ex who cheated on him and its a reflection of my old relationship. Except I know I wouldnt do that to him. Hell if it were you would you be pissed? My ex was really significant to me and my friend has had my back since third grade but now it feels like total doublecross!

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clashcity19 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

You have every right to be mad. Good riddance to both of them. You don’t need people like that in your life. Try not over-analyze it… it is what it is.

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Yeah it sucks though, lol my friend and agreed we’d take a bullet for each other. I meant it but he must not have. I’m through with me ex so I dont know why this bothers me so much, maybe since we only broke up recently. If I convinced myself I was done with her maybe he thought the same way i dont know.

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 156 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

just keep reminding her of her sloppy seconds

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

him? ha thats pretty good.

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

lol alright I have ammumution now I need a solution

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 156 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

are they both your exes?

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

lol no I’m >straight< my friends a guy like me we're just realy good friends

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 156 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

ooooooooooh ok your a guy. and your guy friend is doing your ex gf
ok got it
well so what let him have at her she’s your ex

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah sept I had to find about it from someone else, if I were going to go out with his ex I tell him directly, I can’t stand people who do things behind my back

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 156 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

oh, well then have a “talk” with him see what his “story” is
and if you believe it then forget it
if its lame then say bye
plenty of other fish in the sea

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

yeah I’ll try it thanks

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clashcity19 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (26 minutes after post)

jejs1997 wrote:
Yeah it sucks though, lol my friend and agreed we’d take a bullet for each other. I meant it but he must not have. I’m through with me ex so I dont know why this bothers me so much, maybe since we only broke up recently. If I convinced myself I was done with her maybe he thought the same way i dont know.

Obviously you kept your end of the bargain and he did not. You can’t trust someone like that… he’s selfish. Instead of taking a bullet, he took your ex! Not cool. It’s like an unwritten law that you don’t date your friends’ exes!

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aux1997 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Yeah I always thought so too, Idk I cant look at my friend in a bad light though, strange.

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