Love help: well this is going to sound stupid and increadably cliche but here i go any way.

dazzle_p_

well this is going to sound stupid and increadably cliche but here i go any way.

I’m in love with some. before anyone says it im not a teenager and im not thick, i really love this person. They are one of my close friends and we have an already close relationship. However he sees me more as a “big sister”. All I think about is him and when i found this out i was gutted cause i just cant stop thinkin about him and he is all i want….what do i do

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katlover1 1 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

have you talked to him about your feelings yet?

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dazzle_p_ 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

yh i did and he said that he didnt deserve me (he has a depression/ self esteem problem) and he said that he think im a great person but he doesnt want things like that to happen

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Love him. He may never feel the same, but you can’t change that,

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Shakeybritches 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

If you really think about it, do any of us deserve one another? Well, anyway, you may want to let him know that loving someone has nothing to do with deserving anything. I have a wonderful wife of 19 years that I know I don’t deserve because of my bouts with depression putting her through h*ll. She loves me, not because I deserve her, but because she loves me, that’s it.

He may not feel the same way towards you and he doesn’t know how to say it, or his esteem issues may be forcing him to not accept something that is a big positive for his life.

People with mental illness want to know that they are accepted first as a person and then as a person with an illness. I hope this helps at least a little…Best Wishes,Shakey

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rex1.ro 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 hours, 23 minutes after post)

hey i agree with shakey on this try to talk to him n tell him u care and its not about u deserving him n all.. by wat u say i think he has respect for nd it might be difficult for him to see u that way know but im sure things can work out well …all da very best for u 2

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 hours, 6 minutes after post)

thanx guys ^_^

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