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Agh!

It seems like my whole life is falling over this guy I like… well he’s more than just a guy really, he’s the love of my life– I’m sure. But it seems that he’s growing distant and that he has better things to do than talk with me, which is understandable. But all I want to do is talk with him, and I know he has a life…. but I’m really confused! Can someone please help me? I know half this post doesn’t make sense so I’ll summarize:
I love this boy, and he loves me (or says he does) but all I can do is think about him, and all I want to do is talk with him, even though I know, and he acts like, he has better things to do.

EDIT: I just talked with him the other day and he let it slip that our conversations were getting a bit boring/repeditive and that I called too much. This really hurt. I’m sure he didn’t mean to say it that way, but this really means that I’m getting too needy, doesn’t it? If anyone has advice on how I can stop this from getting worse, please step forward.

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fletcher 89 #
AU | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Oh, I can understand. :/

Maybe you *should* talk to him about this?

Help me with: Academic monotony and mundane inadequecy..

ravenkiko 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

But what should I say?

Sick_Boy 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 6 minutes after post)

look at him and ask him “do you remember when we first started going out (assuming you are haha) and say has anything changed? have i done anything to cause you to think that i am not the same person as you saw me as? or have you changed? i still love you, and i would do anything for you (if you mean this) please talk to me” and leave it in a voicemail… and see if he calls you back…

Help me with: so i am really stressed right now…

Anonymous #
4 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

you’re just gonna have to desire him less, pull away from him a little bit, really. i’ve been in the situation where i liked someone more than he liked me (though he did) and it just really hurt. all the fixes it is desiring him less, not to make him desire you more, just really desiring him less.

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Agh! It seems like my whole life is falling over this guy I like… well he’s more than just a guy really, he’s the love of my life– I’m sure. But it seems that he’s growing distant and that he has better things to do than talk with me, which is understandable. But all i want to do it talk with him, and I know he has a life…. but I’m really confused! Can someone please help me? I know half this post doesn’t make sense so I’ll summarize:
I love this boy, and he loves me 9or says he does) but all I can do is think about him and all i want to do is talk with him, even though I know, and he acts like, he has better things to do.

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