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maybe you should break up with her. i mean if the person you liked at the beginning isn’t the same as the one you like now, you’re pretty much only keeping her becaues you’re thinking back to who you liked before. or if you feel that you do truly have some feelings for her, try to work things out with her. if it’s only physical though,i’d pull out. that kinda connection can only go so far.

Try sitting down with her to sort out some of te main problems for example

anonymous wrote:
all she wants to do is get her tung down my throat.

hi, not trying to advise you to break up with her immediately, but liking someone in the first moment is normal, but when you think she changed after then, the only answer is that you now know who you are really liking. And now know, if it’s really right to like her. Loving someone is to feel good, warm inside..that’s it to feel inlove. So if you are with her, and you think you love her but you can’t seem to find any love from her. Then open your mind man, if she can’t see the love in you, let the other girls do. Don’t hurt yourself by a girl you don’t care about you, if you think she doesn’t!!

Be positive man, if you really love her, then sacrifise the pain, but if you think you can’t handle it anymore. Then you know what to do, “OFF”>>”BREATH a little”>>”Stand Up & Move on to the next one[who could be better”.

Boyfriends & Girlfriends, are some relationship called “Puppy Love” or “Temporary Love”, etc…and could be called “JUST-GETTING-TO-KNOW-EACH-OTHER”..so you dont really have to pour all your life and soul on a Puppy Relationship.

Think twice brother, you’re smart, and if you think you are..then think smart..and maybe you’ll be smart enough in the future to find the real right girl for you, who is smart enough to see the love in you!!

then again, first..try talking to her..try asking her why she changed in a negative way or opposite way from before[in somehow she might not notice it]..

and..

try asking her what she really feels for you..try asking her what is wrong with you now which made her act like that..etc!!

Try talking to her and finding out how she thinks its going… maybe she thinks you like her for what she is.. and i dont think you should stay with her if you think she is too dumb for you, because its an issue for you and if it stops you from being truly happy with her then it probably won’t work.

I am to nice to just tell her that her lack of intelligence frustrates me too no end

i have a friend whose in a similar position. only his girlfriends just mean, and walks all over him because he doesn’t stand up for himself. i’m not saying you should break up with her right now. but if you don’t do anything, than you’re gonna be in this relationship for much longer than you may want, and could potentially be missing out on much more compatable people.