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hey my names bobby i’m 18 i live in indianapolis.

my problem is i havent really done anything with my life. i’ve dropped out of high school twice and i just feel like i’ve failed at everything. i have no job and i live with my mom but thats to help her out. i just feel like i’m nothing and worthless. i hate to ***** but its how i feel. i just need someone to talk to and its hard for me to talk because i cant trust people. but if i meet someone i dont know and is willing to be cool about it then i might try it. so if u can help me then plez email me its (email removed) thanks.

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so_b8 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (28 minutes after post)

college? dont really have the money for that. i wish i could because i would go to the college out in LA thats for music. y cant we email?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (31 minutes after post)

cool. yeah i know but its just too hard for me to trust people. once u tell someone something they have that against u know what i mean?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (31 minutes after post)

hey don’t worry about it, the people here won’t judge you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

thats good to know. i’m glad that i can start talking to people and not bottling everything up inside

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (38 minutes after post)

thanks its a tattoo i’m getting in 2 weeks. its gonna wrap around my leg. tattoos r a hobby and they r fun to get. u got any?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (42 minutes after post)

yeah but i got a little spending money and i figured i’m gonna get another tat. well i might be able to help u with what u want. what kinda stuff r u into?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (49 minutes after post)

do u like celtic knots or is that too tribal for u? figure out something u want or something close to what u want and google search it with “tattoo designs” at the end of it. yeah i have 21 tats. i’ve been getting them since i was 16

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (51 minutes after post)

just trying to help u out. peace

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (54 minutes after post)

good night and sweet dreams

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 hours, 9 minutes after post)

You’re too young to be a failure…. your adult life is only just beginning, so try not to think that way! Not too many have jobs at your age, so don’t feel discouraged. Try not to pressure yourself too much… finish school, and things will start falling into place. Things will change once you find a job and start meeting people, and hopefully you can slowly try to open up more to people and give them a chance… you will find new friends and people to share with.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 hours, 54 minutes after post)

hey bobby im Sammi…do you have myspace?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 hours, 6 minutes after post)

its hard to keep a job when i wrry about my mom so much… i just figured everyone my age had a job and moved out by now u know. yeah Sammi its myspace.com/punching_bag

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Not at all… have you finished school yet?? It takes time to get stable in a job and save up some till you can move out on your own, perhaps with a roommate to meet expenses… you’ve got a lot ahead of you yet. But I really don’t know of anyone who has done all this by 18!! Really, this is just the beginning… in the meantime, it’s great that your helping your mom out!! I’m sure she appreciates it, and you’ll be glad you did.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 hours, 39 minutes after post)

so_b8 wrote:
its hard to keep a job when i wrry about my mom so much… i just figured everyone my age had a job and moved out by now u know. yeah Sammi its myspace.com/punching_bag

Okay…i will add you on there. If you want you can talk to me. People say im a good person to talk to. = )

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