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clashcity19 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Sounds like something is going on. Maybe try again to talk to him. Tell him that you two have been together too long to suddenly not be communicating. Hopefully he will be honest with you about what is going on.

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1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Well, first of all I do believe marriage is something that you should wait for until you and him have settled down and gotten comfortable with each other. Planning a wedding with someone you hardly ever see may not be the smartest thing to do.

While he may not specifically be cheating, you shouldn’t dismiss the possibility of him having fallen for someone else. What you need to do is to sit down with him for a serious conversation. Find out what’s troubling him and don’t let him loose until you are SURE he is being straight with you. Whatever comes up, it’s up to the two of you if you can work it out.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour after post)

clashcity19 wrote:
Sounds like something is going on. Maybe try again to talk to him. Tell him that you two have been together too long to suddenly not be communicating. Hopefully he will be honest with you about what is going on.

clashcity19 “religion defies logic”
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clashcity19 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:

clashcity19 wrote:
Sounds like something is going on. Maybe try again to talk to him. Tell him that you two have been together too long to suddenly not be communicating. Hopefully he will be honest with you about what is going on.

clashcity19 “religion defies logic”
please see:
http://www.share-international.org/

Respect my beliefs, I respect yours.

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Dave on the Moon offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

Tolerate, you mean…?

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Changedgirl edited this post 1 year, 7 months ago. Read the previous text »

What do you all think about this?

I have been dating my bf for a really long time (6 years!!) and we are best friends. We have had our ups and downs in the past but things usually always work out and I thought that we were getting closer to getting married soon but something has been off lately. This past month he has been so distant. He doesn’t call often anymore, and when he does call he only wants to talk for a few minutes. He goes to school in another city and usually visits me on the weekends and the past couple of weekends he has come home and doesn’t seem at all happy to see me. Also, my birthday just passed and he made such a lame effort to do something special for me. He didn’t even get me a gift until I got upset about it. Also, he usually stays for a few days when he comes home, and now that the semester is over I thought we would be seeing each other a lot more. But he actually goes home more often and some days he doesn’t call me at all. I asked him if something is up, even accused him of cheating (which I guess I should not have done if I don’t have any real proof). What is happening here? What have I missed? Maybe you guys can give me another perspective because I am clueless. Help!!!

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