Feel help: OMG iam sooooooo mad! - Help.com

:( im sorry, but your parents dont sound like very pleasent people.

im here if you want to speak to me!

i hope everything works out for you,

whatever you want to do…follow your dreams!
dont let anyone tell you your wrong!
or pull your confidence down….if people insult you ignore them, they are probably jealous!
follow your heart and your dreams,
never give up
and you can achieve anything!
I PROMISE YOU…x

Sweetie, do not let what your parents say define who you are!! Believe in yourself you are amazing just being you!! Do engage in agruments withthem that only brings you down to their level and YOU are so much better than that it will not be long and you will be on your own and then you can show them how truly awesome you are!!!! And when you become a parent yourself remember how you felt being treated in such a way and never,never do that to your kids!!!

I’m so sorry…. it sounds like your mom is having some personal issues within herself and lashes out at you unfairly. Try to remember she really does love you, but she’s a human being and also makes mistakes… and perhaps she’s making some big ones right now as far as how she’s treating you. Is there a counselor you can talk to at school perhaps?? If you can’t turn to your mother, perhaps there is someone else like a counselor or another relative who can talk with you about things.

When your mother gets like this with you, though, you should try to tell her as calmly as possible that what’s she’s doing has been hurting you and you wish she’d stop picking on you about your weight, etc. Just stay calm and don’t let things escalate into a fight if you can. If you tell her this calmly, that you’ve heard what she had to say about your weight already and would she please stop now, it will eventually get through to her.

I’m sure you are a great person, and it’s not fair that she’s undermining your self-confidence like this. Try not to take it to heart, but realize that your mom must be having some kind of problems to be acting like this… and if she’s not the one you can talk to as a parent right now, find someone outside to talk to. It will help!!

i love both my parents and its not like they dont support me at all but i just cant take the consant shouting at me and telling me how horrible i am and seen as my mum gave me birth and looked after and brought me up then i think she is the only one i can trust and even though all the people in my family know that she will take her anger out on someone even if they didnt do anything but everyone has faults and i think the advice you gave me might help i might just have to face her and tell her how i feel with out crying!

Yeah, I wish you luck…. if you can tell her how you feel, that would be best. Ask her to really listen and not change the subject, that this is important to you! I’m sure she loves you so much… I hope you can get through to her how she is hurting you. And please know that you are NOT horrible… that she doesn’t really mean these things… don’t take them to heart.

thank you so much u have really helped :)