Life is risk..take risk. Which one is better for you?
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well there’s the one that makes my heart jump and the one that makes me smile and laugh .how do u let somebody down gently?
Why are you picking? Did they both as you out?
yeah i went out with both of them and now both want to be my boyfriend
the safest route would be pick neither…. haha but if you had to choose one….. do you like them both the same?
i cant pick neither.i just cant.well i love one but he lives a fair distance from me and doesnt have anything to offer me but love and i love being with the other who’s always there and would treat me like a princess.what do u think??
how far is a fair distance. Because i think a closer boyfriend would be a better choice, idk thats just my thoughts if u had to pick one
far is an hour away but he’s movin shortly to about three/four hours away.i know nobody can tell me what to do or the right thing to do,i agree with your comment ethan the nearest is probably a better choice.but i cant help but love the other:(
Can you love two guys? Heck yes and, you can’t help it sometimes. You’re young why not just date for a while and not get in an relationship.
I’m married and I have crushes I would beat yourself up for liking so many guys…It’s girly nature!
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‘wouldn’t’ beat yourself up!
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I think you should imagine what it would b like if you were in a relationship with either, which fantasy do you like better, what are you most looking for in them, which one has more of what you want?
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risk i agree with queen elizbeth
I was in the same situation once and the choice was hard, but I chose the one I really “loved” over the one I just liked being with. I explained the situation to the one I didnt choose and he understood I just didnt love him like I loved the other guy.
I remained friend with the one I liked and I went out with the one I loved and I didnt have to lose any of them.
I think you should talk to both and see who you love the most.
well not the most, cause you probably love them both as much but there must be one of them that you love differently…
think about what you want in a boyfriend and see who’s got it, the other one is probably just someone you love as a friend.
you don’t have to give up any of them.
if the one you don’t choose walks away, he’ll either come back as a friend or not, but if he doesn’t he might not be what you needed after all.
good luck =)
i have almost the same problem but as a guy picking between two girls
i have tried everything, ‘goin with the flow’…’thinkin things through’…it just feels like none of these work. Being only 18 i feel like i want to break away, yet i cant hurt this girl, i think im brave for trying to stay yet a coward for not telling her. Basically the list goes on.
So, to you in your situation, there is no right or wrong answer. Time is possiblythe only thing you can be sure of. Hope it al goes well for you, and sorry to hijack your thread :).
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I have a major prob. Ok theres this one guy named levi who is relly sweet funny and totally loves me, the other guy named harley is sweet fun to be around and loves being wih me and loves just plain me. Now levi is not afraid to come out and tell me he loves me everyday and calls everyday and talks to me on msn everyday, harley never calls and is afraid to say he loves me but he loves me so much and I have known him for a year . Levi is 2 years younger, he other is 1 month younger. But I love them both so can someone help?
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well i have the same prob. i like to guys and i am trying to pick which one to date. guy number one told me not to wait till he is ready to date. the other one want to be with me vere bad. i relly like number one. number to i dont how much i feel for him. i mean i know that i like him but i think its more just like a friend but i am not sure about that. i feel more like myself around number one. when i am with number two do to that he is in the army i feel like i am going to end up the same way that me and my ex did. i know that he is not my ex. if someone could give me so help i would vere much like it. thank you
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