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I have an ex-boyfriend in one of my classes.

Its really awkward. When we broke up, he said he wanted to still be friends but he is really quiet and never really says anything to me. How come he does that? Also how can i make it less weird in class? I know that time will help but i mean we’ve been broken up for like 3 weeks.

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Whoa, same situation again. I’ve learned, and its taken a couple of months to realise, but some people are just worth letting go. Don’t worry yourself about it. After a break up, you need space. I certainly did, 3 months of space!

How i see it, you either go all out, and talk to him about it, and really make an effort if he means that much to you.

Or you can leave it for a bit.

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Hexham, I7, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

He’s probably just feeling the same as you. Just try to have normal conversations with him, and even if you feel a little like sinking back into silence, just keep tlking and soon you’ll get over that aqwardness.

cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 Add Friend #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Good advice above…

I’d probably just try to act like he wasn’t even there, just forget he’s there if you can…. I don’t mean not speaking to him at all, necessarily, but at those other times don’t even think about him being in the classroom. :) Easier said than done, right? Just try to carry on like you normally would in any class.

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