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What kind of breakup was it?
Becket wrote:
What kind of breakup was it?
a really lame one, i was ticked at him because he stood me up on one of our dates, i gave him the could shoulder for like 2 weeks… after that i found out he was dating some other chick that he met on the internet… naturally i became very jealous and after that i was rude then i was needy then i was nonchalant and then needy again then i was distant… and before i know it they are official, they lasted 1 1/2 years together… he and i were on and off for 3… :(
how’s long it been since you too were together, 1.5 years?
it’s normal to feel that way about way someone, I still feel that about a girl I once knew from highscool and I haven’t seen/talked to her in almost 4 years!
Is he still with the internet girl?
wow, thats a long time to be w/out someone… i sneeked a peek at his myspace, and apperantly he isnt with her anymore… i dont know who broke it off though… im still to shy/confused/scared/ashamed… to go find him and let him know that ive been thinking of him and stuff…
you are obsessed. get a hobby. and get a new guy.
chi wrote:
you are obsessed. get a hobby. and get a new guy.
tried both, tried moving away, tried many other relationships, nothing has worked yet, i realize its an obsession but how do i stop how do i move on?
You have 2 options:
You let it go and try to move on
Or you could make contact, maybe try and get some closure. Ever think about signing up to Myspace? You could just leave a comment and see how it goes.
well,idk, im terrified, i want that closure, and ive tried moving on, if you had to make a choice one or the other which would it be?
well my situation is a little different, but if I were you, I’d go with the second option. Like you said, you tried to move and it hasn’t worked. If you really want that closure and the ability to move on, than you have to talk to him. If acts like an overwhelming a$$ than he wasn’t worth it in the first place.
ok… thank you… sounds good… i need some curage though… im really scared.
I know but trust me , you have to move on. Or you are always going to have this on your mind.
I have to hit the hay, give me a shoutout and tell me how it goes.
Patric1 wrote:
Move on, he has. There is someone else waiting for you who won’t stand you up or go off with someone else. Find him, because he is the nice guy!
thanx… the truth is ive tried… i think ill listen to what they said im going to find closure…then maybe ill move on… :(
patric1 wrote:
you will get upset. he will say what you don’t want to hear. you will curse yourself for doing this. you are more than this, be more than this, stop grovelling to him. if he liked you, he would get in touch wouldn’t he? has he? no.
You make a very good point… but i will not grovel… im to proud to do that…i moved away and changed my name…i wont let him know that its me…
well when you have loved someone for so much time.. is naturrally dont want to let him go.. you know!? i had a similar story with my ex and i understan you but sometimes its better to.. let go even it seems so impossible.. but what you think yo loved the most its what hurtz you the most.. its not impossible all you need.. is try to think less of him think in someone else that could give you real Love..
I think you should contact him. You will either find closure or atleast know how he feels about this.
Have you thought about getting some counseling. Maybe you would learn why it has been so hard for you to let go, and enable you to move on. One and half years seems like a really long time to still have someone consume your thoughts liek you have desribed. Also, have you tried making a list of the positve attributes he added to your life when you were together against the negative? SOmetimes seeing the whole picture can help you make a decision. Without know the whole picture it sounds like another realtionship with him may be an ‘on and off’ thing again. Is that what you want in your life? Or do want some stability and a family with a normal relationship? Someone who loves, respects, and is considerate?
well they all sound good, thank you, ive tried putting distance, changing my name, my life and starting new relationships but it doesnt work out(apperantly i have commitment issues and seek guys w/the same deal) i did contact him but as an anonymous person who is interested in his writings(which i am)i dont know how its going to work out yet or what im going to do. but overall i think i missed the friendship we had, i was too hurt to continue being his friend or being in the same city. i made it so that no one could find me unless i found them first…i think that i will gain his friendship 1st then when i have more curage i will tell him how i feel(as myself not the anonymous friend). what do you think? im i doing the right thing…
Whatever is right for you is what you should do. We can all give advice but you are best doing what you think is best for you. Good luck.
hey, crazy, yazy…
if it’s everything you can do to hold on, the best thing you can do is to let go.
think about that.
lol im all for growing, but this obsession is getting to the point where i cant concentrate on my life (and its not that hes a bad guy or anything but, im intimidated because i feel voulnerable, i dont want to be hurt ever)i dunno…. i think about it and well im just stuck i guess.
i think ill take some of that advice, he hasnt replied to any of the messages ive sent him, i dont want to wait around for him, i want to move on. i think ill take your advice, but at the moment there isnt many guys(not even famous)who really catch my eye…. well maybe with the exception of brendan buckly, and johnny depp. ill try it out because im sick of waiting around for him, even when im anonymous he keeps me waiting…
hahaha… patric your an amazing person. thank you, i love you soo much hahaha im going to have a little more fun being anonymous with my other friends ill be dreaming of brendan and ill try to have fun. i just want him to be happy, and if hes happier not knowing anything about me then fine, ill be able to live on w/out him.
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