work help: ive found the only problem i really have with my body is my hair. - Help.com

probably, have you ever heard of SHAKIRA, look at every thing she has done to her hair and its still a mess, lol, beauty goes beyond apperance. but yes if you fix your hair more you will pob. be happier with how you look, but you wont like the process of fixing it, not even shakira does

the more you mess with your hair, the worse it will get. blow drying it damages it. straightening it damages it. all those curlers and pins and gel they stick in your hair damages it. i’ve got hair that sounds alot like yours, very fluffy, very curly and i used to hate it too but i think you should work on loving what you are and not trying to change yourself.

i hate my toes (especially the little ones), my toe nails, my leg hair, my legs themselves, my thighs, my figure, my nose, my hair, my eyes, my fingers, and other stuff.

When it’s wet, put gel, mousse or cream into it, so that it feels wet and somewhat slimy. Then let it dry naturally, without brushing, combing or blowdrying. Only comb it when it’s wet.
Your hair will change from being a comedic prop to being a source of unlimited complements.

Actually i would dye it.

Dye it a darker colour, this wont damage it. This will make it a bit thinner and more flat.

Then, just tell the hairdresser you want it thinner and straight.

Then, buy your own straighteners so you can do it yourself whenever you want to.