school help: I’m Having trouble on a relationship decision.

lkjs

I’m Having trouble on a relationship decision.

There’s this one girl that I liked for a few weeks and she liked me too. (2 Months Ago).
I made a mistake with my friend, we played the “who can get her first” game for the first 3 days. After the first 3 days I started to like her and me and my friend agreed to stop playing because she was a great person. When I asked her out she said to give her a little time because she was just recently in a relationship but then she found out that I played the game on her for the first 3 days which is how I got to know her basically but we talked on the phone and hung out at school for hours through the week. She got real mad and it just went downhill from there. It’s been 2 months and she’s not as pissed as she was back then. She said she dropped it but clearly she didn’t because she saids I am an ******* for the stupidest reasons and always make stuff up like “You’re an ******* because you’re friends with this person.. or because you hate tennis.” We talk for like 5-10 minutes everyday in school now and sometimes I walk with her to her locker or class. Every time we walk together now, she’s being an ******* to me and I understand but she’s clearly not over it and it’s been quite awhile… 2 months ago she said she’ll never talk to me ever and what not but every time I see her in the halls we end up walking and talking but it’s always her saying I am an ******* and making stuff up like ” Yea I was talking to your friend and he said that all you talk about is me…” I honestly don’t and I have no idea why she makes these stuff up. Everything at the moment is pissing me off, I’m not focusing in school and thinking about this, I come home I ignore my parents, blast my iPod 24/7, and never do homework anymore… I have no idea what to say to her .. I said sorry like a million times but she always saids “how can I believe you? You lied to me…”I thought about just ignoring her and forget about her but then that wouldn’t be the best idea.. I hope there’s a second option where this will work out better than just giving up..she’s really not a dramaqueen personality wise.

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eww #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

just……
forget about her.
and eat corn flakes and lemon-flavored yogurt.
i don’t know much things that will not cure.

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lkjs 2 #
Northbrook, IL, US | 5 years, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

I try to but every time we see each other we talk and I can’t forget about her then..
I eat cocoa puffs and peach-mango flavored yogurt.
Cancer is one at the moment.

TheJDevil 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

such a drama queen. yeah just forget her. you dont want to go out with a person like that.

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lkjs 2 #
Northbrook, IL, US | 5 years, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

She really isn’t though that’s the thing….

lil_poppy 8 #
AU | 5 years, 1 month ago (56 minutes after post)

well she is either a drama queen or reli liked you cuz why would she overeact like this

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I’m Having trouble on a relationship decision.

There’s this one girl that I liked for a few weeks and she liked me too. (2 Months Ago).
I made a mistake with my friend, we played the “who can get her first” game for the first 3 days. After the first 3 days I started to like her and me and my friend agreed to stop playing because she was a great person. When I asked her out she said to give her a little time because she was just recently in a relationship but then she found out that I played the game on her for the first 3 days which is how I got to know her basically but we talked on the phone and hung out at school for hours through the week. She got real mad and it just went downhill from there. It’s been 2 months and she’s not as pissed as she was back then. She said she dropped it but clearly she didn’t because she saids I am an ******* for the stupidest reasons and always make stuff up like “You’re an ******* because you’re friends with this person.. or because you hate tennis.” We talk for like 5-10 minutes everyday in school now and sometimes I walk with her to her locker or class. Every time we walk together now, she’s being an ******* to me and I understand but she’s clearly not over it and it’s been quite awhile… 2 months ago she said she’ll never talk to me ever and what not but every time I see her in the halls we end up walking and talking but it’s always her saying I am an ******* and making stuff up like ” Yea I was talking to your friend and he said that all you talk about is me…” I honestly don’t and I have no idea why she makes these stuff up. Everything at the moment is pissing me off, I’m not focusing in school and thinking about this, I come home I ignore my parents, blast my iPod 24/7, and never do homework anymore… I have no idea what to say to her .. I said sorry like a million times but she always saids “how can I believe you? You lied to me…”I thought about just ignoring her and forget about her but then that wouldn’t be the best idea.. I hope there’s a second option where this will work out better than just giving up..

squallz1 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (2 days, 6 hours after post)

She obviously has feelings for you since the way she reacted and the since the face she still spend times with you regardless of what you done. You might just need to sit down with her and try talking to her openly about it, but try to stay calm the whole time. Good luck and thanks for helping me.

relient #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Personally, she might just enjoy all the attention you are giving her. It might not be about you anymore and it might have shifted to the feeling she has when she knows that you are still chasing her. What I would do is give it some time and totally back off. If you like her enough then that won’t be hard for you because it is in HER best interest. If after a while she starts to talk to you and come around then she really does like you and not your attention, but if you totally lose her, than you really did not want to be in a relationship with her anyway. AS far as your parents, don’t tune them out and do not flunk school because in the end family and education will always be there, but this girl may not. If you are on good terms with your parents you could even ask them for advice since most parents have had to go through this stuff too.

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Twunt 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Personally she sounds like a ***** to me. I had a best friend, for 5 years, who sounds really similar. She manipulated so many people, and lying all the time to turn people against others and twist every situation so it was better for her. I’d tried and tried to be there for her, and I’d actually ignored it, even though all the signs were there. The thing is, people like that never change, they’re out for themselves and noone else. She doesn’t seem like she cares about what she’s putting you through, just that she still gets to string you along. Give her up, you’re worth more. Or if you don’t feel you can do that, then try talking to and being with lots of other friends, having a laugh, etc., make her the one that has to jump through hoops. If she’s worth it she’ll change the way she’s acting.

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dayling #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

i think you are a great guy, you did something wrong, and maybe she will never forgive you so if she can’t forgive you it’s not going to work out, relationships are based on trust , but if you tell her what you wrote, if you tell her “forgive me i didn’t know u back then” maybe she’ll forgive you, you know i think you really like her but it might all go wrong, plus you are doing bad at school, you can’t let this afect you like that! Please try to focus on school, i’m sure things will change!

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Amethysteria 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Objectively looking at the big picture of life:
No one wants to deal with a partner that has low self-esteem and dramatizes their problems just so they can feel better about themselves by watching those who care about them suffer.
So why should you deal with this? Get away from her. Set your priorities straight. Don’t let some tricky ***** screw up your high school career. That’ll screw up your chances of getting into a good college and then what kind of screwy career path will you be stuck with?

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koolchick13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 12 months ago (2 years, 1 month after post)

well, you obviously are going mad over her and want her. so just go up to her and confront her about the issue. say something like “you are driving me crazy? do you like me or not” or something like that. tell her how you feel about her and ask her how she feels. tell her about your cocoa puffs and mango yogurt problem and just talk it out. let her talk it out, and blow off some steem. let her get it all out and then offer some sugestions to solve the problem. or just leave her. she will realize how much she misses you. my saying is “if you love something, let it go. if it comes back tto yu it was yours always. if it doesnt, it never was.”

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meowwoof8 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (4 years, 7 months after post)

If you love something set it free and if she loves you she will come back. Get a new friend and see how that makes her feel and she will come crawling back if she loves you ok this has happened I’m popular they regretted it and came back because well we love eachother and I mentioned how I thought I felt so do that.

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