Love help: Am I literally heart broken?

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Am I literally heart broken?

I can’t seem to find a girl.. I’m seriously thinking about giving up.. I’ve been hurt before and really don’t want to go through that again.. I’m 20 and I’ve only had one real girlfriend and she pretty much shattered my heart, it’s almost been a year since the breakup. We were together for a year and a half.. I’ve gone out and tried dating.. I mean I honestly don’t think of my ex anymore but i do think of the pain, she asked me to take her back 6 months ago but i wouldn’t.. I’m kinda shy at first in result of getting hurt & idk where I can find a girl that wont hurt me.. I go to the mall and see a gorgeous girl and I think of talkin to her, then all I can think of is the pain of loosing her.. I pretty much wont even take the chance now and Idk what I can do about it. Idk what to even say to them anymore.. I’m not scared of rejection or anything, just of love I think.. I want a girl though… thoughts? opinions?

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crazy711mdlay 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

well i guess you just need some courage…be strong. try not to think of what will happen. just try to enjoy the moment

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issybelle 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

yes. makes perfect sense.
but i would still fall again.
take the chance.
love - and live.
for passion, desire, hope…

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jeremiahs_got-new-sh 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

how do i find a good girl tho??

issybelle 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

trial and error
you stay open, stay strong, and weed through the horrid blind dates till you find someone who captures your heart

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crazy711mdlay 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

well find a girl who likes the same things you do, so that its easier to talk, you two can share your values/things you find important… thers always a huge risk but sometimes you have to take it…i wouldnt recommend blind dates though… just find someone who likes the same things you do.

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jeremiahs_got-new-sh 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Well I actually just moved to a city so the blind dates thing is kinda out of the question because I don’t know many people. I’ve lived here 4 months now and havn’t gone on a date since.. back home i was on a different date every weekend, I was talkin to those random hotties back home.. but not anymore cuz i’ve come to realize that it’s pointless at this age, everyone just wants to have funn.. and i keep hopeing that i’ll randomly run into “her”… I was at meijer today and there was a beautiful girl walkin behind me, i thought of sayin somethin but couldn’ think of anything, everything else just rushed into mind… the “what if” factor

crazy711mdlay 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

dont expect to just bump into her at any random place in any random point of time… and try to forgett what if… look for “hey shes swell, we have so much in common…etc….”

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jeremiahs_got-new-sh 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I try to get out so i can meet new people like that. I was a server so i met ALOT of girls here in this city, but they were all taken, or players, or lesbos, or *****.. I just feel like it’s never gonna come.I mean it’s been a year.. Should i walk up to that random hottie? whouldn’t that be weird? & the prob with the “HOTTIES” is that they’re all usually dumb or *****

crazy711mdlay 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (22 minutes after post)

LOL ok, well your being shallow and only looking for “hotties” forgett about looking for “her” enjoy the single life, trust me someone will show up…you dont have to go looking for “her” or waiting, it happens when you least expect it… just look for a friend, not a “babe”.

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jeremiahs_got-new-sh 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (25 minutes after post)

well being shallow doesn’t really apply cuz of my opinion of “HOTTIES” it’s just my word =P when i say hotties i just mean a girl i’m interested in.. Well when i meet a girl now it’s practically all i can think about.. i get hit on all the time, but it always turns out to be the wrong kinda girl.. guess i’ll just keep lookin =(

issybelle 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (28 minutes after post)

goodluck ♥

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jeremiahs_got-new-sh 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (29 minutes after post)

=) thankyou

dannysgirl200 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 hours, 28 minutes after post)

It is better to have love and lost then to never love at all. I know you were hurt we all have been, but to give up on love so you can’t be hurt will only make you lonely. Pick yourself up and try to just talk to a girl at first then go from there.

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1 year, 7 months ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

well you can’t be literally heart broken, otherwise your heart would be in pieces, not metaphorically or figuratively, actually torn as in a visible wound. that’s what literal means. other than that, good luck.

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