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Help My house is a disaster!

I try to clean it! i wake up the next day to find it TRASHED!!! ive given up all hope. my boyfriend and all his friends dont respect me or my house!!what should i do?!

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

If your boyfriend made the mess your boyfriend should clean it up. Be like “oh dear, how am I ever going to get in ‘the mood’ with all this mess around?” and he’ll get the message. After that explain to him that he needs to honour your home or he’s not allowed in it.

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

What does it mean? Your boyfriend lives at your expense?

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Absolutely, he has to take some responsibility here. If he and his friends make a disaster out of your already-clean house, he should at least clean up he mess they made!!! You are not a servant to him. If he’s sharing the home with you, he should also be helping with the upkeep.

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actingstar2010 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

hire nymphs.

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

actingstar2010 wrote:
hire nymphs.

nymphs ain’t cheap

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actingstar2010 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

make him sleep and live in his mess. leave for a week with a girl friend. lethim live in the stie.

and i would suggests dwarves instead. i forgot that nymphs make a bigger mess than they clean.

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scary doll offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Tell him to clean up or move out. He is not respecting you.

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actingstar2010 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

whack him with a spoon :]

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roxibabii13 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Villardon, A3, FR | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

do u live in the L.a. area?? if so call CLEAN HOUSE!!!

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Muzikfrk88 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

tell him to get his butt in gear… tell him if he can’t respect you and your house than he needs to find a new place for him and his friends to go… and if hes that much of a jerk you don’t need him n e ways…

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roxibabii13 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Villardon, A3, FR | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 hours, 39 minutes after post)

haha thnxx i know

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