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Can someone read my profile and provide me with feedback.

I believe I am the only person on this site with no friends. I just want one friend who is honest-over 30 and is kind with a good soul.Thanks

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

“…Over 30…”

Well it’s no wonder you don’t have friends when you’re setting standards like that. You are missing out on some special people by doing that.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Hi. I was going to sign up as your friend but to be honest your profile scared me away. Sorry.

Can you reconcile with your wife? I don’t believe in unhappy marriages. Just unhappy people.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Your profile says a lot. You seem to be very unhappy. Isn’t there any way you and your wife can work on things? Have you tried therapy for yourself? Or as a couple? Divorce is scary and financially difficult, but I did it. And I’m better for it. You can do it too, if there’s no way you can work things out with your wife.

As for friends, we’re all your friends at help.com. Stay here, talk with us. :)

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Tobirocus offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

ill be your friend if yo udont mind that im well under 30?

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (56 minutes after post)

It takes time to make friends on here. Is there any person who’s post or replies you could relate to. Someone who you would enjoy talking too. If so, just add them as one of your favorites. Once people see you around more and get to know you, they will add you as their friends.

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Desert Sand offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Paul, you asked for feedback, so I’ll be honest…It looks a matrimonial site profile and it kinda scared me off! Oh, and the age stipulation thing counts me out too unfortunately. Btw: great choices of favourite food :o)

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

It is worded kind of like a personals ad. If you’re looking to meet someone in person, have you tried some social networking sites? Like MySpace or FaceBook?

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mayberry48 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Clarification-Thanks for the feedback. I said 30 and over as I was afraid that as a 50 year old I may not have anything in common with someone under 30. The rest of the feedback is great and I believe in honesty and at this point in my life I am unhappy. That does not mean I am a bad person. I will change the profile now. Again, great feedback. Thanks.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

You’re welcome. Please stick around the site. Let us help you though a hard time. I’ve been there, although we didn’t have kids.

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

I think you will be surprised at how insightful some of the younger people are. I know I have been.

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mayberry48 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Thank you for the feedback. I have updated my profile so when you get a chance please check out my updated profile. I am a teacher so in my position I fully believe that I have to be careful with the age of the individuals. I am a good person and I know as a teacher that young people have much insight and knowledge. I am putting the age as I believe this is appropriate and not to be disrespectful towards anyone. I like the honesty of the individuals on this site. I wish everyone the best.-Paul

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 1 minute after post)

I like the new profile.

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Desert Sand offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 8 minutes after post)

me too :o)

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Desert Sand offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Maybe in five years’ time, I’ll be old enough to relate to you, lol!! Best of luck and I hope you find some friends of that age soon :o)

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Age is just a number. Experiences speak volumes. I say that because I’m old. lol.

I like the new profile.

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mayberry48 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

MAS 1 Thank you for the follow up. I had one person want to be my friend however I have accepted that I will always be in a loveless marriage and I have to make the best of it. I have 4 children, a grandaughter. a Winnie dog and I should be thankful. Many have it far more difficult then I do.-Happy 4th Of July to one and all. Mayberry48

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