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Okay, i wanna have a baby with my bf.

but im scared cuz i have a neurological condition, that can be cancerous, and theres a 50% chance the baby could have it. it can cause tumors, blindness, deafness, lots of ****, i have none of it except tumors. but mine are not cancerous. do u think its selfish to want a baby when i know what might happen?

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Dots offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

theres always a solution of having someone elses egg put in you?

that way you can have the baby, AND not be worried bout the 50% bad.

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1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

hmm….that could work…..

ill have to look into this….

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1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

thanks

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

not a problem. the only reason I looked into it, was because I wanted to be an egg donor, which I’m still thinking about, but it really is a good idea, but its pretty expensive. Talk it over with your bf.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 30 minutes after post)

There is always adoption. Or like in the movie Juno, you could take care of/raise a pregnant teenagers child.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

It would be unfair to the child so i think your best option would be to adopt a child from the orphanage.

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