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hey you should try tht i took it and im in love :) its kinda long but the answer is pretty accurate
lol would you give up your right arm for her? Your life? What about live in poverty forever? Would you step in front of a bus for her?
Would you give up your most prized possession for her? Would you never speak to your parents again for her?
Think of the value or object that you treasure most. Would you break it/ruin it/ destroy it/ ignore it for her?
If the answer really truly is yes to all of them.. I_ think you’re in love :)
love is good to feel..it is good to love someone….ok let me answer them detaily..
first of all…
Love, is to be there for her, “NO MATTER WHAT”.
Love, is to care for her, “NO MATTER WHAT”.
Love, with love you have to be “WISE”..
etc..
*simonthesorcerer asked; “would you give up your right arm for her?”
*dertenbee replies; “in my heart it said it will, but i say, if i give up my right arm for her, and chop it myself or watever..how on earth am i gonna save or serve her if she ever needs my both arm. in common sense, im sure i am going to love a nice good girl, not violent or selfish one..im sure the girl i would love is gonna treat me the way i would treat her..which i wont say or do anything to hurt her. loveing someone is not to be a slave but to be her lover, her savior, not her TV to see some violence or watever like that to attract her or impress her just to show her you love her..if i wanna show her i love her..i wont give up my right arm for her, but work it out, make it stronger, and have it to save and serve her for life!!
*simonthesorcerer asked; “Your life?”
*dertenbee replies; “of course i will give her all my life, as in i am willing to spend all my life with her, NOT throw my life for her, if that is what you mean..hahah!!”
“i will save my life for her, keep myself alive as long as possible just to be there for her, as long as i can…to be there for her to love her, to take care of her, to support her, to protect her from all the trials and fear i could fight..yes, to live and to love her!!”
*simonthesorcerer asked; “What about live in poverty forever?”
*dertenbee replies;”speaking of the word ‘poverty..NO ONE is stupid enough to burn money and make themselves live in poverty. haha! as i love her so much, i will do all my best, work harder, [NOT wishing to be any millionaire or any richman], but efficient enough to support her daily needs, food to eat, place to stay, warm bed to sleep..to give us the right reality future. but if we be living in poverty forever, i will stay, but if i know a chance to live in luxury, i will take her with me, i will take wherever i know will be good for her.”
*simonthesorcerer asked;”Would you step in front of a bus for her?”
*dertenbee replies;”haha, this is totally not the word for “brave” or any “true love”, etc…this is “non-sense”, “stupidness”, etc….hah!! okay, listen..
if i stand if front of the bus, get smashed, and died, for her…do you think when you love a girl so badly, you would be;
#1)- be showing her that you can die for her, coz you want to show her you really love her, but never thought of the result just being self-centred and be only leaving her crying standing at your grave..and be leaving her on earth, all alone, and not sure if she ending up meeting another guy, but who is an a**hole or something worse than that????” *or*
#2)- be staying alive for her, stay strong for her, to be there for her, to be there to love her, to be there to have her and her have you, to be there to protect from anything that would harm her, to be there to care and take care of her, to be there to support her mentally and financial, and so on…??????????????
Brother i’ll be staying alive for her..hahah!! [BUT THAT’S REALLY A STRONG QUESTION!! HAHA!!]
*simonthesorcerer asked;”Would you step in front of a bus for her?”
*dertenbee replies;”haha, this is totally not the word for “brave” or any “true love”, etc…this is “non-sense”, “stupidness”, etc….hah!! okay, listen..
if i stand if front of the bus, get smashed, and died, for her…do you think when you love a girl so badly, you would be;
#1)- be showing her that you can die for her, coz you want to show her you really love her, but never thought of the result just being self-centred and be only leaving her crying standing at your grave..and be leaving her on earth, all alone, and not sure if she ending up meeting another guy, but who is an a**hole or something worse than that????” *or*
#2)- be staying alive for her, stay strong for her, to be there for her, to be there to love her, to be there to have her and her have you, to be there to protect from anything that would harm her, to be there to care and take care of her, to be there to support her mentally and financial, and so on…??????????????
Brother i’ll be staying alive for her..hahah!! [BUT THAT’S REALLY A STRONG QUESTION!! HAHA!!] .
thats funny but true it made me laugh thanks:) and its number 2
*simonthesorcerer asked; “Would you never speak to your parents again for her?”
*dertenbee replies; “;”if she avoid me speaking to my parents, but me also avoiding her to speak to her parents..- do you think she will accept that?? do you think before i started to love her, do you think you yourself will love someone who would take you away from your family..do you think you wont know the girl first before loving her??? haha, dude, i love this girl..but before i love any girl..i will know who she is first..coz you cant love someone if you dont know her, which is..if you love someone without trying to know her well..i assume you only want to be with her in a short period, or watever thing in your head for’n'with her..hah!! but me, i will know more about her before i love her, coz i’d love to know how to treat her, how to care for her, how to love her..to know how would she feel in my every actions and moves for her..to know would i hurt her or what…coz as i love her so much..i will never do anything to hurt her..which is, i started to love her..or start to love any girl..i will know her first, to avoid such questions or words or situation like you mentioned, to avoid arguements and false results for deciding to love her..coz when i love a girl..i NOT only want me to be happy coz im having and loving her..I WANT BOTH OF US HAPPY, LIVING WITH MY LOVE FOR HER!!
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Speaking of “LOVE”, it is not necessary to make or show such violence crisis or anything more like that..to love someone, you will show her more something meaningful, that would make her feel the meaningfulness of your love for her, not impressions or only focusing her to believe in you…you dont make her believe you love her coz of your so-called cool moves[e.g.,; like jumping off from 30/F window or worse.] you dont have to make her anyting, or just have to ‘LET’ her feel you, feel your carings for her, do something meaningful, wise, to let her ‘FEEL’[not see], your true and deep feelings for her……………..
ANYWAYS, your questions were tough, but they can only happen in movies, if anyone tries to do that in real life, i suggest they need a real Professional Love Doctor..coz those are people who arent efficient and strong enough for LifeReality or LoveLife!
“oh my god, you’re a female”???
Haha, sorry..i never tried to check your profile..hehe sorry!!
But touch questions, girl!!!
haha, you are really one tough girl, i swear!!
your bf or your ex-bf must in some real “TOUGH” relationship ey..hehehh!!
ok ok..haha..you are really easy to get along..as your profile said it..heh!!
you must be really friendly ey?? well im a friendly guy too!! and TOO FRIENDLY which sometimes makes people think im a fool..haha!!
the girl im talking about lets me date her..coz she told me she thinks im friendly and nice enough..but she never told me she likes me..haha!!
and another “question”..
if a girl lets a guy[who likes her] date her…what are the possible meanings the girl could have in ming???????????
dertenbee wrote:
ok ok..haha..you are really easy to get along..as your profile said it..heh!!you must be really friendly ey?? well im a friendly guy too!! and TOO FRIENDLY which sometimes makes people think im a fool..haha!!
ya really friendly and ppl say im bubbly and im always in a good mood even if im like sad inside :)
dertenbee wrote:
the girl im talking about lets me date her..coz she told me she thinks im friendly and nice enough..but she never told me she likes me..haha!!
looks like you need to ask her
plus, i havnt told her straight that i love her..i just told her that i like her in many ways..heehh!!
coz she might just ignore me for life, after i do!!
dertenbee wrote:
and another “question”..if a girl lets a guy[who likes her] date her…what are the possible meanings the girl could have in ming???????????
in ming?
dertenbee wrote:
plus, i havnt told her straight that i love her..i just told her that i like her in many ways..heehh!!coz she might just ignore me for life, after i do!!
aww ahhh no :(
ohh..you still want to be Help.com-Pals..just holla me here..if needing any help or anymore answers for me…just holla me here..im “dertenbeef” ..but in here just being showed “dertenbee”..aight gtgs now ..thanks though!
Is this the girl you have been talking about in your prior posts? (before I answered I wanted to know you better) Sometimes what we think is love is just the desire to have something. Do you just want her because you don’t have her?
Would you hold her hair while she puked? Would you clean her cat’s litterbox? Take her crazy brother to the mall when you had tickets to a ball game? Love is boring. Love doesn’t wear makeup and sometimes is grouchy. Do you like her in the light of day? And here is a question…does she like you? If you think that maybe you might be in love then good luck.
Why would anyone care if you love someone, leave it for yourself and that person.
lol i was mostly joking :P i agree with your answers :) But you sound like you really like her, and so yeah, sure tell her :D
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hey, i love a girl…could you ask me more questions or any test, watever..to know if i really love her???? heh!
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