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Why would they make fun of you??

You shouldn’t be scared of them. I know thats easy to say but you have as much a right to be there as them and you don’t actually know that they will make fun of you. If they do, just be thankful that ur not like them and that what they say doesn’t matter its who u think u are inside that counts. Also, if u focus on school, u’ll be the one that comes out with a good education. Dont worry!!

I guess because I have low self-esteem and I’m afraid to stand up for myself.

thankyou joannesjone!

So no one is actually making fun of you now.. you just think they will??

Honestly, just ignore them all. You dont need to worry about what they think of you.

Why are they making fun of you?

They already made fun of me before and I’m tired of dealing with it so I didn’t go to school today.

but what for?

Feel like telling us why theyre making fun of you?

I guess because I have low self-esteem and I’m afraid to stand up for myself and I don’t look like them or act like them.

bSo they make fuin of you for nor reason?

no I already said I guess because I have low self-esteem and I’m afraid to stand up for myself and I don’t look like them or act like them.

try to build it up, do things that make you feel strong,
try to think of things that you can say when they try to be nasty.
Give them no chance to bully.

ohh so they make fun of your low self esstem

sryy lil slow todayy..:]

Low self-esteem is no reason to be made fun of. And by acting like its hurting you, it will actually hurt you more, and let them make fun of you more.

Try to act like it doesnt bother you, and act like your confident with yourself. Bullies only feed on peoples weaknesses. If you dont show it, and act like it doesnt bother you, theyll get bored and leave you alone. In turn, youll feel more confident with yourself..

good advice. Thankyou! I’m still a little worried that when I see them I wont be confident enough and might just break down right infront of them.

wow thankyou! I think that will really help. As a matter of fact I asked my mom about moving schools. She said next year she will put me in a different highschool. I’m really exited about it. I learned my lesson and will try to make better friends that bring me up.. not down.

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wow thankyou! I think that will really help. As a matter of fact I asked my mom about moving schools. She said next year she will put me in a different highschool. I’m really exited about it. I learned my lesson and will try to make better friends that bring me up.. not down.

hej ive read true it.
And keep on building up that self esteem, try to get as much info on it as you can.
good luck !!!!