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my sister is the worst of the worst and i dont think

i can live with her anymore.im the littlist of my family,she is 14 my brother is 17 and i am 13.my brother used to live with us but now he cant.he was or is abusive in all ways,now that he has moved i dont feel pain from him only from my sister and her moood has gotten wo0rse. i am out of ideas, but still in pain. please help me find a way to live and to quit feeeling wat i feel.

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silver offline Verified User (6 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 years, 7 months ago (7 minutes after post)

good luck i am the same age and i do know how you feel but when something happen like that i will talk to her and tell her how you feel and i wish you the best of luck.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Sounds like a lovely family… What are your parents doing? Was your brother abused? Your sister?? YOU??? Talk to them, parents and sister together. Make it known what is going on behind their back. All you want is to be loved and left alone. Be willing to work to earn that respect. By work I mean to also respect them back. Treat others as you would want them to treat you.
Try to stay in contact with your brother if you can. Either by phone or email. Let him know what is going on too. He may not want to hear it, but he needs to know what is going on.

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Listy gurl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 6 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

I know what you are going through. My sister is horrible. I learned not to take what she says to heart though. Me and her hate each other. Do you know why she acts like this. What are your parents like. Somtimes this stuff is just in the genes. Maybe you could try to talk to her. It might not work though.

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JoJo offline Verified User (6 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 6 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

My sister and I hated each other when we were younger. She tried to kill me a few times. I thought I would never talk to her again as soon as one of us left home. Once she left, we became friends and I began to understand that she was in a lot of pain herself. Now she is the best friend I have.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 6 years, 5 months ago (2 months after post)

I know what you are going through. My two younger sisters terrorized the family for years. Siblings can be awful sometimes. Maybe you can move in with a relative. Grandmother, aunt or uncle? Call someone and see what you can do. Where are your parents in all of this?

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