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Janice00
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I love this guy.

I swear I do. I friggn’ dream about him. I dream, as in see his face in my mind when I’m unconscious. I won’t lie to you. I’m mean. I have black hair(used to be brown)with blue eyes. I died it. I have snakebites(two piercings on your bottom lip, one on each side, a ring in my eyebrow, piercings all around my ears. I have a nice body, I weigh 100. I’m 5′ 2″. I wear eyeliner an inch thick. Black lipstick. I hate straight legs(or skinny jeans). I’m very pale, but not dead pale. I wear all black. With a little red here and there. I’m basically Goth. The problem is he’s not. Goodness. He’s a brunette with green eyes. Friggin’ dimples, and he’s tall. About 6′ 0″. Another thing is he’s a bad boy. Ooh. I love bad boys. This is not like me. At all! Never have I ever, ever, ever infinity ever thought this way. I have had several boyfriends and when they or I broke up, I didn’t care. At all. I could not care less.
Oh, yeah. He’s me best friend. Odd, isn’t it? A goth babe(or so they tell me), with a hot not goth.
Please, listen. I’m not concieded. At all.
I have a boyfriend. I love him too. He’s goth, like me.
He has (natural)black hair, snakebites(like me), tattoos, a ring in his eyebrow too. We got that one together. Dark green eyes. Ugh. He’s hot too.
Who should I choose.
Oh, my boyfriend’s name is Damien.
My bestfriend, is Trevor.
I’ve been with Damien for three years. Since I was thirteen. I’m sixteen now.
Bestfriends with Trevor for four.
Help?

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manzlac offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

stay with the guy yooh r with now. no need to break it off with him for just. you’kll get over that other guy. if yooh get with the other guy it may not work out, but if you stay with the one you have now, you will have nothing to worry about.

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manzlac offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

that should say lust and not just.

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rebeccalynn16 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I would take the time to follow your heart. but don’t make a quick decision remember you can’t take it back!! also something to think about your friend Trevor may not feel the same about you; as you feel for him. the safe pick is the one your with. but like I said follow your heart but take the time to be sure.

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mar offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Don’t do anything drastic, but I would say that you should be with the one you are truly in love with. It is not fair to your boyfriend or to you if you have stronger feelings for someone else than you do for him, so if you realize that you like Trevor more, then I think you need to break off your current relationship, because I don’t think you can really be fully in love with Damien if you are also in love with Trevor.

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