Love help: I’m young, a high school blonde w/ another problem. - Help.com

This is such an old story. Bless you, dear heart, for I was there in high school, too, and found myself there as an adult as well. Your best bet is to let him know how you feel, and then if he feels the same, great! If not, then you have to decide if his friendship and just knowing him are enough for you. If so, tell him that…tell him he’s worth the pain just to be his friend and be there for him. Maybe, just maybe eventually it will work out. (it did for me!)

Let him know how you feel, if not you may always regret it. (you’ve always dreamed of?) i sense that you are very young (halls and school stuff) know that you’ll have plenty of time to dream. think of it like you’re shopping for a used car. look it over good, don’t just buy it cuz it’s available and you’ve got the cash. kick a few tires first! just be careful!!!!

Express to him what you feel (in your own way). You might get a big surprize! But again you might scare him off. Do you want to play it safe or do you want to take a chance?

Your a tough girl. Even if he doesn’t respond the way you feel I know you will find the guy who does!

I was in your shoes not long ago (still am I think) We started as friends and after a while I developed a crush, but she had a BF. We spent so much time together we knew each other very well and then I just felt it (the L word). I tried to hold back from saying anything. Always thinking of her going so far out of my way for her. March 7th I told her (first person to) the next days were very dramatic, she didn’t feel the same about me though it seemed like she did so many times. I was going trough a very hard time (still am) she is still my best and closest friend, but, there will always be of part of me that loves her.

Moral of the story: Never know what can happen, something heart breaking or something breathtaking. If the person of interest has grown with you and you 2 have built such a STRONG friendship, most likely they will want to still have you in there life.

wait for the right moment. keep reading the signs he gives off, just be careful not to over analyze…that can cause serious problems. its not like hes gonna be with the girl forever, so wait it out a little while. but, if you feel you must tell him, go for it. do what you really feel you should.