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Broken and lost

Save me? You wanna save me? Heh, you sure? You sure you even wanna try? No-ones ever done it yet. Not me, not a thousand ussers…. just tape over the wound, thats what we always do, eh? I’m not taping it up anymore, its too painful when it breaks open again. I’ll stay broken. I’ll stay this ****** up version of a long gone self.

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1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

no one can save u but urself.. i know whats its like to feel broken.. at the end of the day what is broken can never be the same again.. but i suppose u wouldnt be who u r without ur “cracks”..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Hey- what’s up? What’s happened to make you think that no one in the world can help you?

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Austin, TX, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

the easiest (but not always fastest) way to heal a inner wound, they way i always do it, is to leave it alone and ignore it. Even if your in pieces you can eventually repair yourself. And when people see you broken they will either help you or ignore you. Which is what you want in the first place, right? Id rather be ignore than helped, people who have never experienced something themselves dont know how to fix it and often make it worse.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I just broke my knuckles open on the door punchin it and threw my chair cross the room , breaking a powerchord. Parents will be home soon. Girlfriends depressed and I cant pressure her with how im feelin. ANd im kinda lost and not even myself in the slitest bit, havent been for weeks really.

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Austin, TX, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (23 minutes after post)

ouch, what were you so pissed off about? I broke my wall in once and bruised my hand, i didn’t break any bones though.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (51 minutes after post)

Well, I hope you find yourself again. Was there something that happened a few weeks ago that set you off, or was it gradual?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Look at people around you. Lots of people are dealing with inner turmoil. Lots of people are hurting. Lots of people think no one else cares. People here are willing to help. So it’s not true that no one cares. People will help. But, in the end, you have to want to save yourself. You have to think you’re worth that. Because you are.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

u need to deal with what it is that is making feel this way.. i know its hard but the best way to get over something is to understand it.. maybe u should try talking to someone who can help u have to get rid of all that negativity.. if u need to talk a lot of us r listening..

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:
I just broke my knuckles open on the door punchin it and threw my chair cross the room , breaking a powerchord. Parents will be home soon. Girlfriends depressed and I cant pressure her with how im feelin. ANd im kinda lost and not even myself in the slitest bit, havent been for weeks really.

so sorry to hear that you are having a really tough time hun.. what seems to be troubling you.. have you tried writing in a journal.. writing helps a lot when you can not find someone to talk too.. just open a notebook and write.. anything.. eventually what you are feeling will fall out.. and if you cry… let those tears fall..

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

^j^lil_bit_shi^j^ wrote:
so sorry to hear that you are having a really tough time hun.. what seems to be troubling you.. have you tried writing in a journal.. writing helps a lot when you can not find someone to talk too.. just open a notebook and write.. anything.. eventually what you are feeling will fall out.. and if you cry… let those tears fall..

Im frozen solid, i cant move nor think nor cry anymore. Ive bled and cried my haert away and now thees a hole. I want to explain but i feel i mite either burst into tears again or simply freeze up so bad i never unthaw.

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

well.. do what you feel is right.. dont feel pressured.. ok? as i suggested earlier.. try to write.. i actually get to the point in which i am just so over whelmed that i do not know what to do anymore.. so i grab my notebook and just start writing.. let your feelings pour out.. it really does help..

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 hours, 20 minutes after post)

i cant even begin to explain th eevents of today here and keep this orderly and coherent so im closing this. pce.

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