friends help: There’s this girl that I’ve known since kindergarten and we were best friends for a long time too. - Help.com

shes a bi*tch there problem solved. most girls will still be friends with you after you asked and it will be uncomfy but she liked you but she just wasn’t ready it’ll clear eventually… sometime… in a year or two maybe longer maybe shorter idk

This is such a common problem! If she doesn’t feel the same then you just scared her and the friendship is lost. She saw you as strictly a friend and nothing more. idk you can change your approach to get her or just find another girl. Oh and I’m sure she’ll still be your friend after awhile.

WTF.
she is a b-i-t-c-h.
to throw away your entire friendship over that?!?!
not worth it.
wow that makes me mad.
No. You deserve better than her.
shes treating you like garbage.

TheJDevil (emorc) wrote:
WTF.she is a b-i-t-c-h.to throw away your entire friendship over that?!?!not worth it.wow that makes me mad.No. You deserve better than her.shes treating you like garbage.

no just a b-i-t-c-h that deserves less than you any rate good night… im tired

Hey thanks for the comment buddy! I do agree with you and actually today I was just thinking about “living in the now” thts funny!… thats where true happiness is lying. I mean if you think about the future and all the problems you have you’ll never be happy. You’ll never enjoy the present moment living with what surrounds you here and now. Oh course this sounds nice, but it’s a pain to do bcuz it’s hard to keep it going.
Anyway, the time thing sometimes I wish time would just speed up..u know? haha
The wait is a killer and you don’t know if things are gonna work in the end or not.
The funny thing about time is the longer time goes by the less you think about the girl or the obsession to want her fades. I think it’s going to take you a bit longer time.. for me it was one in a half years w/ the first girl( btw. I stopped seeing her and found someone else,) but you see this girl every week! Unless Unless you find someone else which is almost what you have to do and just hope the same thing doesn’t happen. haha It’s such a bad cycle! My problem is I get attached to the best looking girls. How about you? Is this girl you like really super good looking?
Anyway, it’s hard to talk to anybody like you said..For me I had to find a girl that reminded me of the first and when I found her I could talk again. Once I knew there was a possibility to be with the new girl I made friends with other people and was happy. (or at least for the time being.)
so I’d like to hear more about your situation sometime.
thanks again and talk anytime my friend;)