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LEND ME YOUR TIME FOR A WHILE, FOR THIS FEELING IS SO STRONG, THAT I JUST WANT TO SHARE IT…

AND I AM HOPING SHE CAN READ THIS, AT LEAST JUST ONCE, JUST ONCE…..

i know even though i love this girl so much..i know i have to move on..and BE her only Friend[which she asked me to, lately], but i will be one of her best of best friends in my heart and for her….i swear, i am promised it over my life!!!

and i wont give up my caring for her, till my last breath ends,till *MY* last breath ends..Coz even though her last breath ends, as long as im breathing i will still love her..

then again,
* even though my flesh will die and dries, and my breath will end…i will continue caring and loving her since then and after…

* and even though my memories of love for her, fades, still the spirit of my souls will remain to love and care for her!!!
and i trust my spirit of love for her, will love her, *NOT only till the end of “Life” or the “World”, but the end of *the Souls*…

I WILL LOVE HER, TILL & AFTER THE END OF MY SOUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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BurntUmber offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Pretoria, 06, ZA | 2 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Wow, you really do love this girl. she should realize how lucky she is and grab your love with both hands…

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dertenbee offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

i just wish that she has the eyes and senses that a girl like you have!! *SIGH!!*

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Pretoria, 06, ZA | 2 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Sometimes we cannot see what is right infront of us. I really believe though that she will wake up eventually. Just hang in there and as you say “keep that faith strong”!! She will see that you really love her and what girl can say no to that type of commitment, I think it is great x

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dertenbee offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

BurntUmber wrote:
Wow, you really do love this girl. she should realize how lucky she is and grab your love with both hands…

this is HONESTLY, just how i would love a girl..once i love her!!

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

Actions speak louder than words. Such big promises that you make sound like you’re boasting about your feelings, but how can you prove that you’re saying the truth? Those words will only have weight after they’re fulfilled cause maybe you’re just playing games.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

BurntUmber wrote:
Sometimes we cannot see what is right infront of us. I really believe though that she will wake up eventually. Just hang in there and as you say “keep that faith strong”!! She will see that you really love her and what girl can say no to that type of commitment, I think it is great x

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AS YOU MENTIONED; ***what girl can say no to that type of commitment, I think it is great x[/quote]***

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dertenbee offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

itsmag wrote:
Actions speak louder than words. Such big promises that you make sound like you’re boasting about your feelings, but how can you prove that you’re saying the truth? Those words will only have weight after they’re fulfilled cause maybe you’re just playing games.

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i dont have to show or prove to people[other humans] how much i love her or how much i can keep that promise..
maybe if i dont keep that ‘promise’[now on earth], i might not deserve the bad consequences on earth but in the After-Death World, which is the second world GOd would send us to deserve all the consequences/resutls we have to deserve, from all the things and deeds we’ve done on earth…
‘WHY there i have to deserve what i have to deserve for not keeping the mentioned “Promise”?? - CAUSE ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT I TRULY FEELS, ONLY GOD KNOWS THAT I AM WILLING, [AT LEAST *WILLING] TO KEEP THAT PROMISE!!!

THis heart GOd gave me so Strong, so much passion for that girl, GOd does not need to let other people[any other humans]to know, but have me this heart, faithfully made for that girl…give her love by Feelings of loyalty, true love, true carings, true loving soul.

ONLY GOD KNOWS IF IM LYING OR NOT!!!! SO ALL THAT MATTERs IS GOD KNOWS HOW I FEEL, HOW I THINK, WHAT I FEEL, WHAT I THINK..HE KNOWs I CAN KEEP THIS PROMISE, COZ HE FAITHFULLY MADE IT TO ME FOR HER!!! this is what i only believe for my love for her…
i dont believe in human promises[as i am human, i dont believe of me too]. BUT!!!.. but as this ‘Heart’ is promised to me made for her by God..i know am able enough to keep this promise. Cause this promise is not made by me…but made by GOd…*Promises made by GOd, is the most imposible ‘Promises’ to be broken!!!

Yes, we all know that some Promises of God seems to hurt us before we feel it, but do we know how much better it could ever be once we finally have God’s promises on our hands????????????????? and the feelings is, that is how i would feel once i have that girl on my hands………………………….this is how i love her, and how strong i will keep that promise???

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

I mean..how i love her, and how strong i will keep that promise’!!!!!’ - not “question marks”..hehe!!

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (42 minutes after post)

What a sudden twist, why you started talking of God now? Did he tell you himself that he did something like that? How do you know?
Well I didn’t say that you have to prove it to others, I meant to her. Why she would believe you anyway? You can say anything, but you’ll still be judged by what you do. How does it matter what will happen to you after death if you break your promise.
Anyway too many words, that already seems suspicious. I don’t believe that true love is exposed for no reason like that, it’s just to impress.

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dertenbee offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

that is your belief in GOd..and we have just had some little misunderstanding..its ok, girl..i respect your replies..sorry if im too complicated for you.

but all that matters is, i am here now, and will be there for her as long as i can!!

thank you for some facts though.. and i am not suddenly mentioning about GOd from no where…just telling you how much i belive in Love and Love is made by GOd!!!

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dertenbee offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

and if love is not made/started by/from God, then by who else????

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (47 minutes after post)

LOve is not eternal for HUman Flesh to hold..but our *souls* will always be there to hold the spirit of love!!

if you dont not believe of either True or long lasting love..it is your own belief..i will never put it against you…!!!! :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

and it is okay if you dont believe my love..coz you hardly know, dont know me well, dont know how i can live my life with a person, havnt felt my voice into your ears yet..etc…

so i understand why you just cant believe!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

Thanks for all your comment though, it true in many how too!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

And its just..

“one’s “jokes” could be “truth” to another & one’s “truth” could be “jokes to others”…we are all different!!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

and its alot more ’sad’, if the fact is;

My “Truth” is a “Joke” for her!!!!!!

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

You sound a bit obsessed.
It is obvious that you can’t give final proof yet cause you’re talking about whole life and even after, so there’s no any use to say that all when it’s not possible to prove it’s true.
You just ask her to give you credit which should be based on something, if she knows already that you’re reliable person she might believe but still you should know it’s wrong to make someone trust you more than you deserved yet.
And only very naive girl can fall for that.

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