girlfriend help: i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.

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i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…

now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india..

videoconferencing is not possible……
and even we cant talk much on phone…

i know i am homesick right now…but i am away from my girlfriend makes me miserable and i am not able to concentrate…
i am too far away from her….

it looks quite simple but it is not that easy also…
staying here without her is difficult and such long distance relationship doesnt work at all…..
so staying here means there wont be anything after between us after four years
it is easy to say to stay back but is difficult….

i can really sure of this that i will lose her if i stay back….
should i lose her or shall i try to get her by going back

i keep of thinking about her and it keeps on going in my mind that she will forget me in few months…
and i think it is quite possible because if you are not in front lots of things chage

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Rahat Lokum 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Can’t you save the job and get back to her at the same time? I think she’ll like you more with a job, and you also don’t want your efforts to go to waste. Did you talk with her about that all actually?

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An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

she doesnt want to sacrifice my job…
but ia m not able to concentrate on my job..
i always keep on thinking on how to go back

Blumpkinhead 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (10 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Why do you need to leave your job to go back to her? Is she in another country?

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Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

Blumpkinhead 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Can you find a job that is closer to her? How long will you be apart? Can you visit her in India, or could the two of you arrange a vacation together for a week?

I don’t know if any of that is do-able for you, but I’m certain that there is some way for the two of you to work this out.

Also, you don’t say how long you’ve been at your job in Germany, but you could be homesick. Being a stranger in a foreign country, at a new job no less, can make anyone long for home and loved ones.

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Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india…

Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india…

Blumpkinhead 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

I would stay at your job, and keep in contact with your girlfriend. In this day and age of e-mail and video conferencing, it should be relatively easy to stay in touch until you can see each other again.

A year will go by before you know it, and then you will be able to see her. You’ll be glad you did, because then you’ll have a great job AND a great girlfriend.

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Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india…

i know i am homesick right now…but i am away from my girlfriend makes me miserable and i am not able to concentrate…
i am too far away from her….

Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india…

i know i am homesick right now…but i am away from my girlfriend makes me miserable and i am not able to concentrate…
i am too far away from her….

it looks quite simple but it is not that easy also…
staying here without her is difficult and such long distance relationship doesnt work at all…..
so staying here means there wont be anything after between us after four years
it is easy to say to stay back but is difficult….

Blumpkinhead 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Something worth doing is never easy.

Help me with: S.O.S.!

Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india…

videoconferencing is not possible……
and even we cant talk much on phone…

i know i am homesick right now…but i am away from my girlfriend makes me miserable and i am not able to concentrate…
i am too far away from her….

it looks quite simple but it is not that easy also…
staying here without her is difficult and such long distance relationship doesnt work at all…..
so staying here means there wont be anything after between us after four years
it is easy to say to stay back but is difficult….

Anonymous edited this post 5 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even

she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work

I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india…

videoconferencing is not possible……
and even we cant talk much on phone…

i know i am homesick right now…but i am away from my girlfriend makes me miserable and i am not able to concentrate…
i am too far away from her….

it looks quite simple but it is not that easy also…
staying here without her is difficult and such long distance relationship doesnt work at all…..
so staying here means there wont be anything after between us after four years
it is easy to say to stay back but is difficult….

i can really sure of this that i will lose her if i stay back….
should i lose her or shall i try to get her by going back

Blumpkinhead 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

If she loves you, she’ll stick around. If not, then it wasn’t meant to be anyway.

Help me with: S.O.S.!

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