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i have a girlfriend whom i left and came for a better future…
now i am not able to live without her and i think i am getting mentally ill.
i am going back to her leaving my job..
i dont know whether it is right because if she leaves me someday…i will always have the burden that i left my job for her….but i am not able to do my job even
she is in india and i am in germany…i an not able to concentate on my job…i will lose her if i stay here…
because i have to stay here for longtime
and i am not able to work and concentrate on my work
I have just joine one month back…
if i have to stay here i cant meet her atleast before one year….
i have to stay here for four years….
I can find job in india but will not be of this standard..
so i dont know whether her attitude wil remain same always because of my job in india..
videoconferencing is not possible……
and even we cant talk much on phone…
i know i am homesick right now…but i am away from my girlfriend makes me miserable and i am not able to concentrate…
i am too far away from her….
it looks quite simple but it is not that easy also…
staying here without her is difficult and such long distance relationship doesnt work at all…..
so staying here means there wont be anything after between us after four years
it is easy to say to stay back but is difficult….
i can really sure of this that i will lose her if i stay back….
should i lose her or shall i try to get her by going back
i keep of thinking about her and it keeps on going in my mind that she will forget me in few months…
and i think it is quite possible because if you are not in front lots of things chage
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