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He obviously doesn’t respect you.
So drop him.
And don’t look back.
Dump him. Find someone who has more respect for you.
how did u find he’s cheating on u
Try to calm down and see what he does. Does he know you know?
no i don’t think i no him whts hes name
Yes, I found him chatting with her on MSN. I knew it and I asked many many times and he denied it. I just feel so used. We have been together 6 years and I thought we were going to get married and all that jazz. But now I just feel like I don’t know what to do. I feel like 6 years of my life have been wasted. I feel like a fool.
It happens to the best of us.
We all get deceived :-\
But for real, don’t deal with his c*ap.
Just walk away.
I am, but now I have a new problem. If he has signed into MSN on my computer is there a way to get his password? I am going to need to prove he was cheating on me in court so I can get some money back that I loaned him a while ago. I need his MSN conversations that he saved.
I think MSN makes a folder in your comp with all of the convos. It did on mine at least.
If he didn’t tell it to sign in automatically I don’t think it will save the password.
um. maybe do a search on your computer.
Search for his MSN name and see what comes up.
Here’s the directions from the FAQ.
Click the File menu, and then click View Message History. (If the menu bar doesn’t appear at the top of the conversation window, the window frame may be hidden. Click in the upper left corner of the window, or press ALT to restore it.)
If required, click a contact, and then click OK.
This opens a history file containing every conversation you have had with this contact since you began saving your messages.
I need to see the conversations he has had with his mistress. Not the conversations we have had. I need to sign into his MSN.
Did you search all of your computer files, because I somehow had mine saved.
don’t let him know you know. Let him sign on again, while you are there then ask him to get you something. When he is gone, get the convesation and print. then hide it. after you have it. Tell him you are dumping him, but in no way show him the papers, he could easily take them away.
I am feeling so strange. I can’t eat and I can’t sleep. It has been 24 hours since I have eaten. Food makes me feel so sick. What can I do to get over this? Whenever I sit down I can’t help thinking about it. I feel so used and betrayed. Help.
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