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Dots offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (2 minutes after post)

Drop him.
He obviously doesn’t respect you.
So drop him.
And don’t look back.

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jcd offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (9 minutes after post)

Dump him. Find someone who has more respect for you.

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An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (26 minutes after post)

how did u find he’s cheating on u

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years ago (26 minutes after post)

Try to calm down and see what he does. Does he know you know?

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An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (28 minutes after post)

no i don’t think i no him whts hes name

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 5 years ago (30 minutes after post)

Yes, I found him chatting with her on MSN. I knew it and I asked many many times and he denied it. I just feel so used. We have been together 6 years and I thought we were going to get married and all that jazz. But now I just feel like I don’t know what to do. I feel like 6 years of my life have been wasted. I feel like a fool.

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Dots offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (31 minutes after post)

It happens to the best of us.
We all get deceived :-\

But for real, don’t deal with his c*ap.
Just walk away.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 5 years ago (1 hour after post)

I am, but now I have a new problem. If he has signed into MSN on my computer is there a way to get his password? I am going to need to prove he was cheating on me in court so I can get some money back that I loaned him a while ago. I need his MSN conversations that he saved.

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Dots offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I think MSN makes a folder in your comp with all of the convos. It did on mine at least.

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jcd offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

If he didn’t tell it to sign in automatically I don’t think it will save the password.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 5 years ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

How do I find that folder Dots?

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Dots offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

um. maybe do a search on your computer.
Search for his MSN name and see what comes up.
Here’s the directions from the FAQ.

Click the File menu, and then click View Message History. (If the menu bar doesn’t appear at the top of the conversation window, the window frame may be hidden. Click in the upper left corner of the window, or press ALT to restore it.)
If required, click a contact, and then click OK.
This opens a history file containing every conversation you have had with this contact since you began saving your messages.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 5 years ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

I need to see the conversations he has had with his mistress. Not the conversations we have had. I need to sign into his MSN.

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Dots offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

Did you search all of your computer files, because I somehow had mine saved.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 5 years ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

Umm, no. Lemme try that.

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TulipsDream offline Verified User (5 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Akron, OH, US | 5 years ago (7 hours, 51 minutes after post)

don’t let him know you know. Let him sign on again, while you are there then ask him to get you something. When he is gone, get the convesation and print. then hide it. after you have it. Tell him you are dumping him, but in no way show him the papers, he could easily take them away.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (6 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 5 years ago (9 hours, 37 minutes after post)

****. Too late.

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CA | 5 years ago (23 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I am feeling so strange. I can’t eat and I can’t sleep. It has been 24 hours since I have eaten. Food makes me feel so sick. What can I do to get over this? Whenever I sit down I can’t help thinking about it. I feel so used and betrayed. Help.

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Changedgirl edited this post 5 years ago. Read the previous text »

Ok, so I found out my boyfriend is cheating. I am crushed. What do I do now?

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