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well im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is fourteen and i really really like him i almost think its love.

we usually hang at this skating place but we really dont skatee we hang outside, but i usually have someone else there with me but no one is going. and i know he wants to have sex with me he told me and i dont want to and he knows that but idk if he is going to try or not. i dont know if i should go skating tonight and risk the chance of him trying to have sex with me because no one is going. should i go? or shouldnt i?

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cubanbaby58 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

i think that you shouldnt go if you dont want to have sex then it is best to try to avoid the situation and temptation…..it is better never to do it then to regret it….and ne way your too young for that you have to live your life and have fun dont worry about that stuff right now…..and if yuou guys arnt in a serious relationship its best you wait beacause all guys want it and you wont know if he really cares….idk if your a virgin bt if you are take care of it its very precious and priceless and i dnt want you to regret what you did…….also dont think i dont understand im 14 myself i know what your going through but trust me its for the best to avoid these situations

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be.happ offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 35 minutes after post)

I don’t really think it’s a proper time to have sex. As cubanbaby58 says, virginity is something very precious, do not give it away that carelessly. Besides, if the guy really loves you and takes care, he will understand and respect your decision. If he really loves you, he will never insist. It is important to do it for the first time with a person who really cares about you, but not only about his primitive instincts. There are often guys who try to have sex with girls to look cute in their friends’ eyes, and then they point at a girl and say, ‘See this chick over there? I slept with her last night!’ And the girl feels scared and unprotected and wants to cry… Is this what you want? If not, think twice..

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kitta_reyno offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (17 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Try going, but have a back up. E.g. If something goes wrong text a mate. If he does try something make it REALLY clear to him you want nothing to happen and dont for a long time. He will probably understand but if he gets mad, he will calm.

DO NOT FEEL FORCED
Its something you will know that you wanna do before you do it.
No pressure, no doubts.

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miksean4all offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

You should do it with him, come on its so awesome, he takes you out to a movie then rent a motel, make sure he has a condom, then start kissing, take some clothes off then get in the bed. Let him lay on top of you and push it in, hard. When he does, moan and say don’t stop. Just keep going and going, then you lay on top of him and show him what you have and what you want. Don’t be afraid to make the bed move… it feels good.

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miksean4all offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

I am not saying now, I am saying take my advice when you think you are ready, not when you think he wont like you if you dont, that aint right.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

miksean4all wrote:
You should do it with him, come on its so awesome, he takes you out to a movie then rent a motel, make sure he has a condom, then start kissing, take some clothes off then get in the bed. Let him lay on top of you and push it in, hard. When he does, moan and say don’t stop. Just keep going and going, then you lay on top of him and show him what you have and what you want. Don’t be afraid to make the bed move… it feels good.

haha

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