guy help: Ok Atm Im too scared to use the bus because of having experiences

spiritedsoul

Sandgate, G5, GB

Ok Atm Im too scared to use the bus because of having

experiences of being stalked/intimidated by other guys who go on it also atm im vulnerable after surgery so if i do get followed im less able to do anything about it. also Im upset that some of these guys just won’t leave me alone.

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 2 minutes after post)

he was prob one of them. its the series of events that bugs me from different guys,

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

what is there to go to the police for? because its prob too late to report these men. im just worried about what to do in future if it happens. how do i cope, what do i do? etc

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Blumpkinhead 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Sarah’s right. Go to the police. But first, write down every incident you can think of that involved this guy stalking you. That way, you can show the cops the dates and times of when he (or they) harassed you.

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I know, its just I had 2 incidents in the last 6/7 months which were bad. bout also a couple of other occasions guys came up to me but i then could physically easily get away. atm im vulnerable after the operation and some guys would see that and more likely follow me.
It has upset me a lot, that they won’t leave me in peace. like my life belongs to them and not for me.

I might go to the bus station next week for advice about what to do if it happens again as i have quite a bit of free time as time of uni for operation time to recover.
would going to the police help as well? like ask advice?

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Michael Leibman 106 #
Littleton, CO, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 11 minutes after post)

spiritedsoul wrote:
would going to the police help as well? like ask advice?

It might help. It seems like part of their job to try to make people feel safe and secure out in public.

At the very least they could tell you what self-defense things might be useful.

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 14 minutes after post)

I don’t remember the dates when these incidents happened to be honest. Im sure they might ask advice, the counsilor I see is good but I don’t find her advice for the stalking guys all that helpful.

Im scared of the same men and any men of following me. it feels like, its happened a fair few times before, its likely to happen again. ESPECIALLY if im vulnerable.

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 14 minutes after post)

and thanks for giving me ur advice.

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 38 minutes after post)

well where I live where there are a lot of guys from the middle east who come from a male dominant society. they are more possessive over women there so been influenced that way. I very rarely have problems with english guys.

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spiritedsoul 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

i know not all guys will behave like that, but Its like there will always be those who will.

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