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OK heres the situation…

.im goin to prom with this girl and i was gonna pay for but yesterday my gym bag got stolen it had everything inside….my cell phone, wallet, permit, cloths, shoes…i ended up walking home with cleets this happen after a baseball game…so wat should i do, im broke and cant pay for her…should i ask her to pay for her?? please help

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Blumpkinhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Ask your parents for help.

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

insured for what? it was my own money and someone just took it…$150 cash

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Blumpkinhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Did you call the cops?

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (22 minutes after post)

no man they dont do anything, i put my bag in the locker if the school and had a baseball game, when i came back down all my **** was gone…..should i just tell the girl the truth

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The Astro-Man offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Tell her what happened. Then tell your parents what happened and see if they’ll spot you. If not, ask friends. And contact the police just in case they actually do do something this time around.

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Blumpkinhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Your date may have already spent money on a dress, getting her hair and nails done and stuff. That’s a lot of money.

How much time before the prom?

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (27 minutes after post)

the ticket is $70, and i told her not to get her hair done…prom is tonight in about 10hrs

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Blumpkinhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (30 minutes after post)

If you leave her hanging, you’re going to look like a sh*thead.

I’d ask around to see if you can borrow the money.

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

thats wat im prob gonna do…and maybe ask my parents

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

ok I rarely read on here people say their stuff got nicked but this is the second post I read in the last 5 mins of something bein stolen! and both posts sent no less than 5/6 mins between each other!

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

I think u should be honest with this girl, then she should understand. if she doesn’t care shes not worth ur time.

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Haha thats trippy….mine happend yesterday and i randomly typed help.

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Easier said than done…ima try my best and hopefully it wont be awkward…

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (44 minutes after post)

and if this girl expects u to pay for her to live her life even if u were living on the streets then I don’t think it would make her a good partner, wouldn’t it?

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (47 minutes after post)

no shes not like that..the thing is she asked if she had to pay and my dumm a$$ said no its cool, i got it and now im down and if tell her i dont wanna be like a retard….ima just put myself into gods hands and let him do his thing

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (48 minutes after post)

id say, just be honest. s*** like this happens to everyone at some point in their lives. im sure this girl can relate due to her own personal experiences.

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (50 minutes after post)

ok honestly what wld u do as a girl, if ur date told u had to pay for ur ticket becuase his wallet was stolen? tell me the truth

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (57 minutes after post)

she doesnt have to pay it right away..the things work is you sing up and they send u a bill and the end of the month….so she doesnt exactly have to pay today

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Blumpkinhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I don’t know. She might just think you’re trying to get out of paying.

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

i dont know man im confused out of my mind…ima ask my parents and see what they say and ill tell her the truth

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

no body gives a 16 yrd a 2 day job….ill tell my dad and if that doesnt work ill tell her the truth

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

they know about the cell phone and cloths not about the money

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

my parents gave me the money thats why i said i dont wanna ask them for money again

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musadiq offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

aight ill do that…thanks alot everyone

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The Astro-Man offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

You’ll look a lot worse if you keep it all to yourself. Chicks dig honesty, bro. Just be up front about it. You can’t help that your stuff got stolen.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 22 minutes after post)

The Astro-Man wrote:
You’ll look a lot worse if you keep it all to yourself. Chicks dig honesty, bro. Just be up front about it. You can’t help that your stuff got stolen.

I agree

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