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Why are you a snob?

I don’t think you are either, which was why I was asking, why do you think you are?

Are you single and happy?

Doint things when you want to at the time that you want to is great. What I would not give to be alone again. When I was by myself, I used to get up at 3 o’clock in the morning for a wee hours walk downtown or I used to get up at 12 o’clock or not get up at all. I used to veg out in front of the tv all day long on weekends and not worry about anything or anybody but myself. Then I got with someone……….you know the rest of the story. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

Can people, just be people?

Like, typecasting “women” as freinds, means that your hung up onthat and not the person, maybe?

Sounds like you do need women as friends. Women are a very complicated creature, and I mean that in a good way. They have a certain way of interacting with other women and they have a certain way of interacting with men. I think you are looking to belong to a group of women that have things in common with you. That fellowship that you feel with women sometimes you don’t feel it with men. Find other women to be your friends. There’s a caveat: be choosy who you become friends with, and it’s not that you are a snob, it’s just that from the sounds of it you can only be friends with a certain kind of woman. A woman who may share the way you feel about relationships with other women.

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