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I need to rant.

I have met the perfect man. But I am an insecure cow who simply scares men off or just waits for them to give up trying. What the hell is wrong with me??

This open post was written 1 year, 7 months ago | V/U/S: 133, 4, 2 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

Try thinking about that next time you are with your perfect man. Maybe you will find that you are not being loving enough towards him.

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1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I dont want to scare him off by being too forward. It’s kind of in the early stages. On the other hand I think i’ve screwed it up by acting like I dont care. I think I AM insecure.

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1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

You don’t hav eto say anything to him. Just if you are not acting how you would like, try thinking about what you told us here. Then realize you are not being that person and you can change.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Be yourself! I am sure you are not a cow! Be happy with yourself, I did not say complacent or completely content. You can change, but you need to love yourself for who you are, then others will see that and be more attracted to you!

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