life help: How does someone with Asperger’s get a girlfriend. - Help.com

I’m sure there are resources online, but just observe how others interact. Small talk is easy once you get used to it… just general “How are you?”, make comments about the weather… “Nice day, isn’t it?”, asking if they had a nice weekend, etc. Mostly I think it takes practice to just get comfortable, and then you can just make simple comments based on whatever situation you are in.

I have the same problem.

Krabby127 wrote:

spiritedsoul wrote:
I have the same problem.

It gets so frustrating. I want to know how you deal with it.

well, ive only just been diagnosed with it. its irritating when people say “oh you don’t have it” when I do and it annoys me when they say it because but its affected my life a lot and its like they don’t understand.

Im being invited to a support group for others with the same condition as me. I do get lonely a lot, especially as my siblings have friends and go to parties loads and im stuck at home with no one being a loner.

but seriously, are there are groups u can join in ur area. that way u can get support and find ways to learn coping strategies in ur comunncation skills. its what im going to try and do anyway. sorry ive been negative, just experiencing a low atm.

My three year old has aspergers and I often wonder what his life will be like when he is older. All I can say is be honest with people if they are truely your friend they will care for you no matter what.