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how wrong do you think this is?

? my little cuzin has an older half sister. they have never met. she hasn’t seen her sister and her sister hasn’t seen her.. my little cuzin lives in the south…and her half sister lives somewhere in so cal. now the only person who has seen her half sister is one of my uncles..my little cuzin wants to see her big sis really bad..she tells her friends that she has a half sister which is true…the thing is….she doesn’t tell them that they have never met. she comes across these photos of a very pretty girl with blonde hair and blue eyes( this is how my uncle describes my little cuzin’s half sister) she then takes those photos and creates a myspace for her sister and poses as her sister with those photos… she tells every one of her friends that it is her sister. now my cousin goes to a different school but even my classmates are falling for this… this guy in my class is INSANELY in love with her and he asked him out and all that……….i just dont want my cousin to get hurt or embarrased if someone finds out that she is doing this…and i dont want that guy who is crushing getting hurt either…and im afraid that it is gonna involve me in it since she is my little cousin, so that makes her half sister my cousin too. what do u think?

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madi offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i think you should talk to ur cuz first.

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jeaniecarpentier offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

search her name if u know it.

myspace
google her
try to find her

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (52 minutes after post)

I think she’s become a little too obsessed about her sister to be going this far. Yeah, I agree that you should talk to her, and ask her how she thinks her sister would feel if she knew, etc. Give her something to think about here. She could ruin their relationship before they ever meet!

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drama queen=]] offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bowling Green, KY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 hours, 58 minutes after post)

cattail wrote:
I think she’s become a little too obsessed about her sister to be going this far. Yeah, I agree that you should talk to her, and ask her how she thinks her sister would feel if she knew, etc. Give her something to think about here. She could ruin their relationship before they ever meet!

yea its just that this is gonna end up hurting not only her true sister, but her friends for lying to them…the obsessive guy especially….other people from my school, me, the girl in the photos, and herself. ive talked to her and i was like…you know people could find out about this and ur gonna get in serious trouble and she was like dont worry no one will ever find out…

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 hours, 3 minutes after post)

But people already do know. She should just remove that site before it goes any further. :( Keep trying to convince her it’s just not right…. and she’s bound to end up regretting this. It’s not worth it!!

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drama queen=]] offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bowling Green, KY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

cattail wrote:
But people already do know. She should just remove that site before it goes any further. :( Keep trying to convince her it’s just not right…. and she’s bound to end up regretting this. It’s not worth it!!

yea i should..its just tht i hope she doesnt lose friends from school or outside of school for doing this..

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Yeah, but at least she can prevent any further damage. Maybe they won’t think too much if “sis” just decided to take her site down…

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drama queen=]] offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bowling Green, KY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

yea..probably…do u think i should tell the real person in those photos about this?

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Oh, is it someone you know?? eek…. rough situation to be in!
Well, it would be best if she would just remove it… quickly!!!

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