Love help: Can someone who displayed characteristics of a sociopath when

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Can someone who displayed characteristics of a sociopath

when she was in a relationship with you ever turn around and be truly and hoplessly in love with someone new? My ex girlfriend was a total *****. She was the cold, heartless, selfish, manupilative, mean, no empathy at all. She displayed most of the characteristics of a sociopath. She never had a successfull relationship in the past either. Now all of a sudden she has fouond some one that she says shes totally and hopelessly in love with. I don’t get it. Can some one like that completely do a 360 degree change in a matter of 3 or 4 months? This time it even appears to be different. Could it be that she never really loved me and the others? Still how can someone be so **** mean like she had no feelings or remorse for her actions. It was like she just didn’t give a ****. Now she is really in love?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Sounds like my x but she still says she loves me after all she did

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erin 54 #
Augusta, GA, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Obsession is often confused with love.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Sounds creepy, mate. Stay away from her. I think she figured out how to best use people and that is through charm. Cu Cu Cu Cu. She sounds like I girl I used to date. Except this girl even got to the point of using her body to get what she wanted from anybody. Now, she married a poor sap and she makes him very unhappy. Run for your life Charlie Brown!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

off course she can change maybe sociopaths were neglected as a child and lacked emotional support from family.Love is the key not just social engagement. I would consider myself a sociopath but i still care about a few people and find things like rivers , birds, nature beutiful each to there own. Does everyone have to confine to the norm daily conversations where you really dont learn much, you could call many scientists, philosophers sociopaths because they live isolated and dont associate with the general public but they contribute alot to the world, can we say the same about others. People who mock sociopaths must be really righteous.

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

She may be a sociopath, if she is than she’s lying about loving her new boyfriend.

Gareth you are so not a sociopath, google the term it’s not at all how you describe it!

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