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Blovebetchx, what do you want to DO with your life? The booze and weed aren’t going to help, you know. You want to dream? For a dream to be meaningful, you have to do things to make it come true. And you CAN keep it together if you make up your mind to do so. You must also choose your friends, and especially your boyfriends, very carefully. I think you have come to the point where you have finally realized that your own choices haven’t put you any closer to your dreams, but have taken you farther away from them. Do you want to know something? You deserve the very best life has to offer. Don’t settle for a hangover and a high. Don’t settle for a boyfriend who can’t get his head out of his behind. Don’t SETTLE, period! You have more choices than you think you have. I think you should talk to a counselor, or therapist, to help you get on track. In the meantime, don’t let anyone else judge YOUR potential by THEIR limitations!!!

You’re worth it. A LOT more people love you and care about you than you’d dare guess.

Life is pretty doggone hard at times, and it’s harder if you’ve made some wrong choices, and if you’ve surrounded yourself with some squirrelly people.

But life is also very rewarding when you have made plans and realized them: to have a nice family, to have a home, to have the kind of job or business you enjoy.

It’s also rewarding to help others . . . because sooner or later, we all need some help!

It does not matter who your parents were, or were not, or how many times you have gotten knocked down, or how many times you’ve sinned. You can alter your circumstances almost immediately by altering your attitude. You need to have a winning attitude, and reject thoughts that you are a “loser.” Remember, you do not NEED weed, or alcohol in excess, or boyfriends who are intent on wrecking their lives.

I want you to convince yourself that you deserve the best out of life, and then to make some real plans to help you attain your goals. Always have a goal on the horizon.

You ARE a good person, and you DO deserve the best! Never think or believe otherwise!