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When do you know that its time to move on from crushing on a girl?

I really like this girl but it never works out, all the time i feel as though im seen as just a friend or we never have THAT moment of connection, im starting to feel like i need to cut my losses and forget having feelings for her, i find myself trying to find things wrong with her, so i can avoid having feelings for her.

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ScienceGirl offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Now.
You have realised it already cause you made this post.
Smile :)

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indusric offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Hi,

I hope I don’t offend.

I think it’s time that you move on. Try and go and find someone else to get that connection with.

What is important is that you keep this girl as a friend but maybe cut down on the amount you see her. You might find that once you have got it into your head that it’s just friendship and have tried to find someone else that later in life the friendship turns into something more because you have always been there for her.

Don’t try and hate her. You probably know that there is much to hate and you will probably regret it in the long run as it will destroy anything you have with her.

I have been in a similar position and know how frustrating this can be. It will work out even if she doesn’t end up being “the one”

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Marylou offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 68 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

You can’t pretend you don’t have feelings for her. That won’t work!
Have you really made it clear to her, though, that you have feelings for her.
Or does she have to guess???
If so, please open up. Don’t be afraid.

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