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I need Help very much; I am now job less & very much alone also.

I am 3yr exp. Web Designer. Age30 male. On Last month (march 2008) at march suddenly I have got a better job offer & I have changed my job, but in new company there I suffered A lot, There none have any fan or ac in this very hot summer, & duty hours was also too terrible by which I got seek, still now I am suffering by skin disease, and still now job less sitting at home.

I am having huge negative attitude in mind still now; I am very much worried about the future prospect of this web designer job. If I get a new job how long should I continue? In my last company, they decreased the percentage of yearly increment. But I am very much worried about my future.

Actually web designing is my profession due to my educational qualification. But I am one artist also. I used to do painting in clothes & many more side jobs what I like, and wish to have a business.

I am very much alone from my child hood. At my last company I got some friends but still now they are disconnected. There was some one special & had the physical love relationship with that friend. But after discontinuing the job all the friends are gone. Still now I am without that much capital by which I can take the risk of business. Nobody are not here to inspire me for something new start. I am not getting new friends also.

In my home I am the little one. My house is 300 yrs old big house at kolkata-India. I do stay with my very old parents. My father is now 85 & mom 68. I have two elder sisters, both are well established & married. My family has very much educational background.

My Father— was Scientist, worked in SAHA INSTITUTE OF NICLUER PHYSICS, Under MEGHNATH SAHA.
My Mother—- Duble M.A. on Bengali Literature. & also was school teacher.
My Eldest Sister— is Scientist, stays in Sweden, working at Upsala University.
My Eldest brother in law — also Scientist in Sweden in same University.
My other Elder sister —- business women having a little DTP House
My other brother in law —– is Auditor.

The relation with them little separate now; actually they thought that I would be a very much helping personality of them in there career. But I have chosen my own career in a different line. In my last office due to my friends I was little detached with my family. Regularly I used to busy with family, didn’t give any importance to them & didn’t attend the family functions also.

But now——— all are expecting a huge career & financial support like the others. My dad are also the same. But my mom are little different in front of me. I am showing them positive mind but in mind feeling the huge sorrows & helpless position. I need friend very much how will take care on myself & need a good career.

I don’t know what will be. Please show me way…..

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bitc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

hi u might be job less but u can still get another one and u r not alone there is all ways some one close by
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johan.erasmus offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

You need Jesus Christ, my friend. I’ve met Jesus 11 years ago and I’ved never been alone again. He showed my the true way to live and every step of the way He has been with me. every desision I makes I first pray to Him and He shows me the way. In everything I do, even when I want to chance from one job to another, I first ask Him if I must do it. There is no greater fullfillment than walking with Jesus. From my personel live I can testify that since I got saved by Jesus He gave me a much beter job with tree times more money than before, and that is only because I love Him and He Loves me and I know that He loves you to, so do’nt be afraid

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annse offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 30 minutes after post)

listen
don’t worry
try to get ur previous job back
use any means-plead, request anything
contact higher officer(s)
u will succeed
best of luck and best wishes
my god be with u

(i did the same mistake in 2005, went back to my previous job after 8 months……and guess wat they immediately promoted me)

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Sans offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 319 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Johan it’s great that Jesus rocks you on the water. I’m of the Jesus-as-a-third-party-candidate mind also, but the TOS on the site specifically says not to try to overtly convert anyone to any religion. When that happens, an argument invariably follows. It has been quite controversial and divisive at times. For a little history on this, please take a look at a post (one of only two I know of in which the subject did not cause strife) by my friend Fizz. http://help.com/post/147155-how-to-be… Peace to you and the anon poster as well.

Anon, at least you have a job in a field that is growing and changing. On the bright side, you didn’t turn out to be an auditor like your brother-in-law (I assume you mean a tax auditor), which would be considered tantamount to selling your soul. Artists throughout history have sacrificed much for their art. What concerns me more is how you have separated from your family. It’s not so important that you meet their expectations, just that you stay connected to them.

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