life help: I have a lot of dreams where I either die or relive really painful events. - Help.com

I no exactly what it could mean because I have had these very same dreams. Now I am not always right because dremas are very mysterious but I have found that if you are suffering injuries or death in your dreams you could be making a mistake in your life and your sub-concscious is trying to warn you to change. it could also mean a great change is coming up or you may be suffering from inner conflict over something, do any of these things hit a tune for you?

I’m not doing anything at the moment so IDK if its making a mistake. I’ve been pretty down since march from some bad events. Could be a inner conflict.

It means you’re not coping with the problems. I used to have the same dreams all the time. Once I learned how to cope, and heal, the dreams went away.

How do I cope ? I’ve been down since then; Lost my last friends I had, the one and first love, my job, people in my house are always putting me down…

You sound just like me. It’s ok we lose frineds and make new ones all the time and love will come and go alot but you’ll only find one true soulmate. Now are you depressed or just down about your current events?

yeah depressed

Then you’re in for a long haul because fighting depression aint easy. Aint impossible either though. Start by thinking of what is causing the depression and seein how you can fix or change it to be more positive for you.

I know I’ve had it for not to long. I just want somethings to go right in my life, you know ? make friends, love, job etc… I haven’t made new friends in years, and the last ones I got are gone. Job search is not going so well, been 2 months and still nothing. I guess I’ll always be like this until my hard work pays off.

If itas only recent then you have a much better chance of overcoming it, early detection really does lead to the best cure. You have a friend in me so your hard work is paying off already :), is there any reason you have difficulties finding work and new friends? Are you in any kind of relationship with someone or have you been sinlge for just too long?

Knowing these things can help me better understand your situation and help you however I can.

I have little qualifications and there isn’t much work over here. Im not really good with making friends, I’m good with social interaction with complete strangers, but no one really seems to be interested in being a friend. I’ve never been in a relationship and im going to be 21 soon.

Well can you take any courses to help boost your qualifictaions? Maybe you aren’t meeting the right people to be friends with, if you are good at talking with starngers, than talk with strangers. Soon you will meet someone who is interested in getting to know you more. I have only had one relationship in my life but it doesn’t stop me meeting new people so I wouldn’t worry to much about that. You still have heaps of time to meet the right person for you.

Well I’ve been needing to get a job ASAP (bills need to be paid). Yeah I’m kind of giving up on looking for friends. Thanks

Solitary man hey? There’s no need to give up unless it makes you happy. Are there any positions available as a factory worker where you are? Factory work usually pays alot and only requirs basic levels of skill.

Examples are picker packers, just grab things off the shelf to be shipped out and earn big bucks while doing it.

Yeah I’ve been looking for something along those lines. I guess I’ll keep my eyes and ears pealed.

It’s all you can really do, while you do search though maybe try gaining some experience by doing volunteer work so when you find a good job you’ll have more skills that could be resourceful to them.

Have you spoken with a councelor? Or shrink of some kind?

no, im not good with opening up at all to anyone unless its people I trust and know.

Than find that person you know and trust.

I had someone, I used to tell her everything and she always made me feel so great. Until I feel for her, and told her… thinks have changed. That leaves me with no one.

If you continue to hold this in, it’s only going to get worse.

Then who, I’ve been to counsellings before. I couldn’t open up. After a while i just stopped cause It was going no where.

Find another shrink. I went to 3 different ones before I found one that I was comfortable opening up to. If you’re not willing to talk to friends or family, then you need to find a shrink. Bite the bullet and spill your guts to them. It’s not easy, but once you do it will be the easiest thing ever.