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Tear Jerker offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Maybe you could start a conversation with her and see if she likes anything you can openly discuss for a long period of time.

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elysium offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I’ve always TRIED to do that but I get really scared and never know how to start the converstation

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Tear Jerker offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Hmm well just be casual and do your best, it’s ok to be a little shy everyone gets like that once in awhile.

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Lancer offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

My little brother is vry similar and what I always say to him is, Whats the worse that can happen. Just relax and start of wit having the small conversations as you get know her it will become easier.

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elysium offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Thank you for that both Twisted_Transistor9 and david.war

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Patric1 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Always say hi back and smile try ‘Hi yvonne’ or whatever her name is. Saying her name will make her feel important to you. You don’t need to make conversation with a helping hand every so often, when she is least expecting it, is offered. Don’t say, ‘can I reach that for you’ just reach for it and as you pass it down try a warm smile with eye contact. Don’t linger, it should be one swift movement. She will then wonder if she saw what she saw and will watch for you next time - hopefully anyway. Conversation can wait, or join in with one she is already having with someone else - as long as it a general converstaion for anyone to put in their bit.

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elysium offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Thanks Patric1, I’m going to try that and I think it may help. Thanks

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Patric1 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Let us know if you succeed.

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elysium changed the tags on this post: they were "girl, Person, Retailing, question, conversation, speech, Minutes, Almost everywhere, enjoy, talk, talking" 1 year, 7 months ago.

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elysium offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

Hello everyone, its been a while since I posted on here. I ended up talking to this girl and managed to get into a good conversation. It was only a short conversation but IT’S PROGRESS. I going to carry on and increase my confidence gradually; I’ve spoke to her once so I can do it again. Anyway thank you to everyone that has helped me on this post; very much appreciated.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

Great to hear elysium! I hope it continues to get better for you and all the best!

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susanp79 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Be yourself, ask her for coffee and feel it out. If she says no then maybe she’s not that into you, if she says yes then ask her for lunch.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

well if you could try to get a really good one going then you would forget how nervous you are and then you probably wont stop. lol try bringing something up that you have a strong opinion about or maybe something that you two could have in common or that you love. Once you talk about something you love, its hard to stop.

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arcticcherry12 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Smile back and give her a compliment, ask her her fav stores, sports, band/singer, etc. There are so many things even movies/actors!

Hope I helped :]

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elysium offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

arcticcherry12 wrote:
Smile back and give her a compliment, ask her her fav stores, sports, band/singer, etc. There are so many things even movies/actors!

Hope I helped :]

Yes you did. Any advice is helpful. Thank you :)

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elysium edited this post 1 year, 4 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

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elysium edited this post 1 year, 4 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

Sorry just testing

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elysium edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

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elysium edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

Just testing

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elysium edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

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elysium edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

Sorry again
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elysium edited this post 1 year, 2 months ago. Read the previous text »

I need some advice on how I can talk to this girl.

I know people have probably asked this question before but I still need help. I am working at a retail store and this girl started about a year ago. She is really cheerful (is almost always smiling) and seems to enjoy talking to everyone. Whenever she sees me she always says Hi and tries to talk to me but because I am a reserved person (I wish I wasn’t) the conversation only lasts a few minutes.

Does anybody have any advice?

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