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dump her

She sounds like she is pulling your leg. She does not sound worth it at all.

I mean we have never had problems, i don’t now what to do?

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Any suggestions on what i should text her now. Just to see what she says?

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Maybe she is just wanting to chill with her friends.

Sounds like she wants you to do all the work. Like you said she would not come and see you, but she expects you to go to her…or she gets upset. What if you got upset with her for not going to you? And then when you put yourself out there, she says no…having a girls night. Sounds like a girl who loves drama and will always find ways to make you feel like you are not good enough for her. Seriously, text her…that if she wants to see you again that she needs to come to you.

Is she a Gemini?

And see what she does. You offered her company and she turned it away. Now see if she is willing to go to you. She is acting irrational over a dumb text, and she needs to be put in her place.

Science girl:

I have not seen her in 3 weeks, so is that not enough time to have “Girly” time. and yes she is ??

To rememberpoe: ill show u all what she says back and what i sent her. :]

Ok you have not seen her in how long…and given the chance to see you she turns you away! Come on buddy. Cut the cord…she is saying something and doesn’t want to be the one to say it…if you catch my drift.

Anonymous wrote:
Science girl:

I have not seen her in 3 weeks, so is that not enough time to have “Girly” time. and yes she is ??

To rememberpoe: ill show u all what she says back and what i sent her. :]

She sounds like a typical gemini, like me.
She will be nice one minute, then off the next.

If i am anything to go by, just give her space, she will come back. I promise.

I think dat u should end it w/her. she sounds like she wants 2 control u & i agree w/rememberpoe. she has da chance & aint taking it. if she really wanted 2 b w/u she wouldnt take it.

gemini or not, there are ways to treat people and ways not to, I think she is being kinda a #$$%*&^ about it and not giving as much as you are in the relationship

i get what you guys are sayin but i phone her like every other day, we are both in university doing our medical degrees and we dont normally have time to socialize but it had to be tonight when she is going to her friends house.
I just text her saying:

You tell me to make more of an effort to come see you and its you not making the effort to come see me as well…

(We will see what she has to that)

ok, good. I was also in a long distance relationship. So I know where you are coming from, difference was that i was on the female end of things.

(We will see what see has to say about that)

Also she only lives 5 miles/ 8 Kilometers away.

Honestly he came to me more than I went to him, and after time and effort I see how it was messed up, and I made the move to be with him. A relationship takes two to work on it.

5 miles away and you have not seen her in weeks….that is sad.

I understand where your coming from but its only in the last like 2 months or so, and btw i was on work placement at uni.

just go find another chicky and don’t even think about her, when she finally does call, say oh i broke up with you months ago but you were too busy to notice so La-dee-freakin’-da!

Wow she only lives 5 miles away. it kind of suchs dat u havent seen her.

o i didnt notice the anonymous thing was on sorry guys =/

University or not….if you have no time…then you shouldn’t waste each others time, relationships take time and effort. And even more so to the point…if you are both stressed with work…there is no reason that she should be acting so childish.

If she has time for her friends, she has time to go 5 miles to see you.

thanks guys, im off out for a cigarette ill only be 5 mins but please keep your comments coming. :]

Jebus zeus dats not good advice. i mean hes da good guy y make him into da bad one?

I personally think she is avoiding you. I just can’t believe she said no to coming to see you. Especially if you go to her often, just seems a little selfish.

I agree once again w/rememberpoe.

ask he rif something is wrong!!or if your doing something wrong..how long have you guys been dating??

3 years

Dats along time. She shouldnt b treating u dat way if uv been 2gether dat long. At least dats wat I think.

ScienceGirl wrote:
Is she a Gemini?

LMAO!

Dude wats “d’oh” supposed 2 mean?

LOVERGURL wrote:
DUDE WATS “D’OH” SUPPOSED 2 MEAN?

It comes from The Simpsons TV show. Homer says it when he has a mini epiphany, like realizing something he has done was wrong or self injurious. Oh and you can call me Shakey if you like. I like it better than “Dude”. Also, you are awesome! Never getting drunk or stoned, that is great! And maybe I’ll think you are weird later, but right now I think you are awesome! Shakey

Thx & i no wat it means i just didnt no wat u meant by it. i mean i love da simpsons i used 2 watch every night. not so much now. how bout u? u like da simpsons shakey?

Oh yes! Homer’s my hero!

R u kiding me?! mine 2!!!

What’s your favorite Homer quote?

“D’OH.” URS?

No, I mean like a quote. You know like, “Why you little……” as he begins strangling his son.

“ohhhh, baby yeah…. grawwwwww.” when he starts eating food. i wish i could enjoy my food w/dat same pasion. lol!!!

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