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What a problem; *If your BF’s/GF’s Mom is in the hospital

holding his/her life 50/50, but unfortunately your childhood buddy/sissey is also holding his/her life 50/50 at another hospital too, which is they both need to take some major surgery to keep living, or else die, and the surgeries would cost $200,000-$300,000. And now you only have $345,000(or less) to spare for [only] one of them. Who would you save?

-Non of their family members, friends, etc. are able to save them but you.
-One of them has lost their husband/parents, etc.
-Its only up to you now, of who to save [your childhood friend or your BF’s/GF’s mom??]

needing some answer please????

this is not for me, but for someone i know!

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R X T 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

I would save my friend because they will always be their for you and girl friends are just temporary

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

mattg24 wrote:
I would save my friend because they will always be their for you and girl friends are just temporary

yes, i know. its so hard to replace a childhood friend. i do understand my friend alot, but you’ve been with the gf for like a decade already, you two had planned the future so well already, will you just let her down like that?

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R X T 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Thats a really hard choice i can’t say sry

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

mattg24 wrote:
Thats a really hard choice i can’t say sry

yes, i know it is! its ok bro~

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

renante8 wrote:
I would save my friend because I have to help my friend because I would feel responsible for them

true! i would save my friend too. but my friend had been with his girl more than a decade already. they even started to plan their marriage..

so hows that gonna be for him to choose his friend?

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DaNi♠HaTes♠You 31 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

i’m going to have to say neither

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

DaNi♥HaTes♥You wrote:
i’m going to have to say neither

a really hard one then..~~

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Hope 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

can he split the money b/w the two of them?

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DaNi♠HaTes♠You 31 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

if they were truley my friend’s they’d understand why i couldn’t do it

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R X T 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

He can Get A Loan

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

mattg24 wrote:
He can Get A Loan

the $345,000 i mentioned was already loan.

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

mattg24 wrote:
He can Get A Loan

some are even his savings from his bank savings account.

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DaNi♠HaTes♠You 31 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

maybe the friend and mom should of had health insurance

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

DaNi♥HaTes♥You wrote:
maybe the friend and mom should of had health insurance

they are trying to confirm this now, but im not just trying to get some ideas, incase no!

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

Hope wrote:
can he split the money b/w the two of them?

i wish he could..i wish the doctors would let him pay half price for each first!

plus, i’ve also already donated some to him. and so nice of his parents, his parents supported at least 30%

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Hope 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

what kind of surgeries do they need? do you know?

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R X T 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

Maybe he sould look for some type of goverment program that would help him

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

Hope wrote:
what kind of surgeries do they need? do you know?

i didnt want to ask, coz from his voice and eyes..i could see he wanted to keep the problems a little disclosed, and he only told me the problems and asked me if i could lend him some money, that is all!!!!

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dertenbee 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

dertenbee wrote:

Hope wrote:
what kind of surgeries do they need? do you know?
i didnt want to ask, coz from his voice and eyes..i could see he wanted to keep the problems a little *CLOSED*, and he only told me the problems and asked me if i could lend him some money, that is all!!!!

i mean, *CLOSED*!!!

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