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Tinycountrybee
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I am so tired.

I have had such a horrible life, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. I am 34 but I feel like I’m 94. I have been on Social Security Disability. I suffer from Major Depression, General Anxiety Disorder, Diabetes, Hypothyroidism, Anemia, Sleep Apnea, High Cholestrol, Diabetes Retinopathy, Infertility and Advance Peridontal disease. I had a stroke a year ago, the side effects are some stiffness in my thigh and short term memory loss. I’ve been told I will be completely blind in the next couple of years from the retinopathy. I know that things could be worse. I was told I will not receive additional benefits when it does happen. Social security isn’t enough to even cover rent. I have recently gotten divorced and now I am being evicted by my ex husband. My parents are both deceased and I don’t have any siblings. I did not know my Mother or her family, Both of my parents died when I was young. The only family members I do have are struggling themselves. I slept in my car three years ago, when I had no place to stay. I’ve applied for section 8 housing but I’ve been told since I don’t have any children, the wait is three years. I can’t afford to live anymore. I don’t make enough money to qualify for low income housing. I am so sad and I keep getting the run around around from agencies. I really need help. I hope there are some resources available to help me. Please email me if you know of anyone able to help.

Thank you!

Barbara

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Rico offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
US | 7 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Where do you live?

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7 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Sounds tough. But I meen we all have our ****. I’m 19, I have anorexia nervosa, hypochondria, anxiety disorder, manic-depression, osteoporosis (brittle bones meaning I’ll be sing a stick in my 20’s), virtually nill chance to have kids due to my illness, no qualifications as I was too ill to take them, never had a job as I’ve been too Ill to work, it’d be impossible to get a job anyway as I’ve been sectioned under the mental health act, just lost my flat and over the years lost most of my friends, family and my boyfriend. Anyway, I’ll stop, it’s not a competition. I’m just saying everyone has a **** life so just find the good in it. There will be some

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classicbeaut offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 7 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Pray :) It always helps me.

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Rico offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
US | 7 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

I’m trying to find out where you live to look at options. Here is a general US option. Call/email these people up and at least they might be able to give you a referal to someone who can help you.

National Council on Independent Living (NCIL)
2111 Wilson Boulevard, Suite 405
Arlington, VA 22201
(703) 525-3406
(703) 525-3407 (TTY)
E-mail: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

National Council on Independent Living is a national membership association of local nonprofit corporations known as Centers for Independent Living (CIL). NCIL is the only cross-disability grassroots national organization run by and for people with disabilities. NCIL provides technical assistance, training, and leadership to independent living (IL) centers in many areas of concern to the disability community, including IL philosophy, center operations, and the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) through the NCIL/ILRU IL Network Project and ADA Training Project. NCIL also provides information and referral services.

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bjalexandr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Dear Barbara,
You plight sounds challenging and restrictive to say the least. I am amazed at your strength to reach out and seek solutions to change your life for the better. I am inspired by your tenacity and warmed by the responses from people willing to help. Thank you Barbara for speaking up and reaching out, I too feel tired, very tired, but on a whole other level. Your strength lights the way for my weary soul to continue on this journey.

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Tinycountrybee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Thank you all for your kind words. I live in Florida and all I keep getting is the run around. I contacted 8 different housing agencies, I got three “sorry we aren’t accepting applications as we have really long waiting lists” and the other five have not replied as yet. Rico thanks for the website, I checked into the resources page and I’ll start calling tomorrow.

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grants offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (2 days, 3 hours after post)

And if you want to receive assistance and information about low income housing , you may visit the websites above.

Housing Assistance Grants
HAN is available to help people with low and moderate incomes find suitable housing
http://www.HousingAssistanceNetwork.com

Rental Assistance Program
HUD provides quality rental housing to Low-Income families.
http://www.instantgrantsearch.com/?pa…

California Public Housing
HUD provides quality rental housing to low-income families in California.
http://www.instantgrantsearch.com/?pa…

The ABILITY Housing Program
ABILITY Housing Project is an accessible home built for a family where one or more members have health conditions or disabilities
http://www.instantgrantsearch.com/?pa…

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acboardma offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

How can I get help paying my electric bill if someone is on social security disability in Pennsylvania.

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