Hi,
Some days back I got engaged with Sonu, Arrenge marrige.. we are being dating for last 4 months now…
We share great understanding with each other.. however i was not able to c that initiative taking to meet me.. call me from his side… So I asked him abt the same.
HE said.. “I respect you, I like you very much, n just cant think abt cheating you at all.. I am not being able to c u in my Wifes image…I feel u r a gem of a person.. and deserve a much better boy than me.. but I dont know why.. i cant c u as my wife…if this continues i wont be able to give you justise (as in he said he wont be able to come close to me)… If i wont marry u.. i wont marry anyone else for sure.. but i want to c u happy.. and so give me some time to c if i can develope those feeling for you”
I told him lets take 15 days… think positivley abt me.. and try to c me as your wife.. we wont discuss this in these 15 days..and tell me ur openion on 15th day.
He said.. If in case i have same feelings on 15th day as well I am still ready to go ahead and marry you if you want.. coz i respect you N i like you too much to hurt you.. and i said I wont marry you if you are not geeting that feel for me.. coz then you will not be happy.. and i just cant C u unhappy”
Wht should be my stand in these 15 days And wht shd i do on 15th Day if his ans is negatinve.
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anjalijoshi20 edited this post 1 year, 10 months ago. Read the previous text »
Hi,
Some days back I got engaged with Sonu, Arrenge marrige.. we are being dating for last 4 months now…
We share great understanding with each other.. however i was not able to c that initiative taking to meet me.. call me from his side… So I asked him abt the same.
HE said.. “I respect you, I like you very much, n just cant think abt cheating you at all.. I am not being able to c u in my Wifes image…I feel u r a gem of a person.. and deserve a much better boy than me.. but I dont know why.. i cant c u as my wife…if this continues i wont be able to give you justise (as in he said he wont be able to come close to me)… If i wont marry u.. i wont marry anyone else for sure.. but i want to c u happy.. and so give me some time to c if i can develope those feeling for you”
I told him lets take 15 days… think positivley abt me.. and try to c me as your wife.. we wont discuss this in these 15 days..and tell me ur openion on 15th day.
He said.. If in case i have same feelings on 15th day as well I am still ready to go ahead and marry you if you want.. coz i respect you N i like you too much to hurt you.. and i said I wont marry you if you are not geeting that feel for me.. coz then you will not be happy.. and i just cant C u unhappy”
Wht should be my stand in these 15 days And wht shd i do on 15th Day if his ans is negatinve.
anjalijoshi20 edited this post 1 year, 10 months ago. Read the previous text »
Hi,
Some days back I got engaged with Sonu, Arrenge marrige.. we are being dating for last 4 months now…
We share great understanding with each other.. however i was not able to c that initiative taking to meet me.. call me from his side… So I asked him abt the same.
HE said.. “I respect you, I like you very much, n just cant think abt cheating you at all.. I am not being able to c u in my Wifes image…I feel u r a gem of a person.. and deserve a much better boy than me.. but I dont know why.. i cant c u as my wife…if this continues i wont be able to give you justise (as in he said he wont be able to come close to me)… If i wont marry u.. i wont marry anyone else for sure.. but i want to c u happy.. and so give me some time to c if i can develope those feeling for you”
I told him lets take 15 days… think positivley abt me.. and try to c me as your wife.. we wont discuss this in these 15 days..and tell me ur openion on 15th day.
He said.. If in case i have same feelings on 15th day as well I am still ready to go ahead and marry you if you want.. coz i respect you N i like you too much to hurt you.. and i said I wont marry you if you are not geeting that feel for me.. coz then you will not be happy.. and i just cant C u unhappy”
Wht should be my stand in these 15 days And wht shd i do on 15th Day if his ans is negatinve.
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