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So you want to die a martyr?

Well Bacon, it’s a eternal battle to fight hate, but fight all you can

When people sell their souls and fill the space with the words and ideas of others. That’s the source of all this hate.

losco6 wrote:
don’t you think a lot of us feel the same way? I can’t even watch the news anymore. I refuse to live being terrified to walk out my front door. God doesn’t want that. We are all in this mess together and you’re absolutely right, people need to change.

why are you terrified, or of what?

oop (my 3rd one for the night)

We are all in the same fight with you. Don’t dispair.

how old are you?

don’t hate back

florie wrote:
don’t hate back

Truest thing ever said. People hate because they don’t understand. You shouldn’t hate those who live like that, you should feel sad for them.

so true, so true U_U
the world gets worse every day, it seems. we just gotta stick through it, perservere

vibes is a good word, long in use

From the time I was 17 until I was 26 I had the same feeling. I even thought I knew the year that I would die. 1999. I’m 49 now and still ticking.

That feeling of impending doom is a marker, a red flag saying “Yo, the world is in sorry shape and it’s put me off balance.”

Baconboy wrote:
this crap literally brings a tear to my eye. i have plenty of great friends, but they cant change it. they cant stop me from feeling like this hate is going to kill me.

Its much easier to do, and more rewarding. To love your neighbor as yourself…… you have to first be able to love yourself…..

Maybe you are giving away too much of you….

How about taking care of you, for a change.

Being good to youself.

So that your cup will be full, and you will have to give to others.

The hate in this world cannot penetrate you, unless you let it.

See it for what it is, and have no part in it.

Do good things for you, things you enjoy.

Listen to good music, that inspires you, and encourages you, that uplifts you.

Read good material, that is positive, and not negative.

fill yourself with everything good, and loving and kind, and positive that you can find.

This is the way to fight back…. in love.

and in strength.

Strength within.

When you are full, you have plenty to draw from.

If you become depleted, you have nothing to draw from.

It is your job to take care of you.

Forgive those who hurt you, but, don’t give them another opportunity.

Think kind and gentle and loving thoughts.

Send out positive energy and it will come back to you.

Rebuke the bad vibes….

Are you a praying person???

If so, prayer helps tremendously.

If not, the other things I mentioned will help tremendously.

(((Hugs)))

God bless…..& Sweet dreams……

It’s harder to feel this way if you’re out in nature

You say you feel the ‘hate’ that is consuming this world…the hate that is entering the minds of many as they spew it onto others, bringing them down, encasing them in a tomb of angst and filth…

Yeah it’s around us everyday…

Perhaps you’re more empathetic than those around you…

This bad ‘vibe’ you speak of…what is the negativity that surrounds it…what form is it in…who is it coming for…

florie wrote:
It’s harder to feel this way if you’re out in nature

Absolutely… I agree 100%….. take a long walk…. in the woods, or by the lake, or a pond, or what ever natural you are close to. By all means…..Great answer….

also… go to the pound and love a puppy…. he is sure to love you back…..

losco6 wrote:
We can’t live our lives in fear. God does not want that. You should tell your parents how you feel.

He may believe they won’t understand where he’s coming from…or there is potential for them to misinterpret his fears…

random comment…
i want o kno what happens when i close my eyes for the last time , take my last breath and my head is resting in a velvet lined castket

Maybe you need another dog. It’s hard to feel impending doom when mine are begging for me to rub their bellies or play tug-o-war.

yess i kno!! its a WONDERFUL thought i love it! he he maybe a little tooo much

1. As they say, “Man’s Best Friend”. A dog owner myself, I know exactly what you’re talking about…they connect with their owner on another level, caring with unconditional love.

2. Take pleasure in the things that put a smile on your face, it’s a release from the daily grind that we throw ourselves into and a release from that puts ease on the mind. Find things you can connect to easily and do with a passion…that’s what drives us the most.

3. Impending doom you say…as if ‘they’re’ coming for us…people have been saying it for years…but perhaps it’s just been progressive build of these feelings…an overall emotion that is starting to boil over.
There’s alot of unrest in the world, changes are taking place that the people have no say or control in, our fate is resting in the hands of those who are using their power irresponsibly…perhaps it’s time to make a difference…

Baconboy wrote:
heh. i have a cocker spaniel and a half Black lab, half collie who thinks shes still just a baby. when im with them i feel unrelenting joy, a contentness just rests in me. but then i worry, and wonder what ill do when their gone. nothing can replace something that loves you like that. no matter how many dogs you get, each one that leaves you is a giant hole in your heart that cant be filled.

That’s the price you pay for experiencing one of the few pure emotions.

where do you stand with your parents? how’s your relationshipwith them?

Baconboy wrote:
i think having a dog is the closest humanly thing you can get to being with god.

When you’re a parent, you’ll know that your children’s love is like that too. And as someone who has had great dogs live and die, I can say that you can find peace when one of them you love is gone. And there are always loving dogs needing homes.

i used to feel this way once ,until i learned that making a difference started with me,i needed to be happy to make others happy around me,the world is full of hate true but i believe that love is the greater ,else we would have all perished a long time ago,just because it seems the world is driven by hate ,must we follow suit and perpetuate it,make the difference in your own world ,love is like a smile contagious ,as is hate,but what would you prefer to exhibit,love?or contaminate the ones close you with fear and loathing,no hope and suffering?”the only thing necessary for hate to dominate is good men do nothing”if you want to be remembered for love than act and believe in love nothing else,the media dosent reflect this trait in man always showing the negative,the wrongs,never the positive,the rights and good deeds of purer hearts that continuesly hold this world together amid the chaos of confusion,dont believe the hype we shall overcome if we all start to make that change in ourselves,make your peace of paradise in your home,the enviroments you breathe,and until the maker sends for our souls dont let them break your spirit to manifest the love,it is to precious a thing to lose,and to give up on hope is to be party to the madness and support the lost cause