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delgirl4

Adelaide, 05, AU

Why Do Guys Cheat On Their Girlfriends?

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Rahat Lokum 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

It’s true vice versa too.

friendlyheart 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

the same why girls cheat on their boyfriends! They don’t love any longer the partner of their life or they just don’;t care about them ! But not all them are like that :)

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delgirl4 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

yea I guess ur right girls do to, I wish I could meet sum1 that wasn’t likely to cheat though. I just feel hurt because I have never cheated on any of my boyfriends and they throw it back in my face.

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friendlyheart 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

i understand you feel hurt ! It’s a normal thing ! But you will see not all boys are like that! Those who cheat on you don’t even deserve your love !

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spiritedsoul 34 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 4 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

maybe ur not choosing to go out with the right sort of guys. have u by any chance gone out with a guy whilst at the time was with someone else?

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delgirl4 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 4 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

no I haven’t because I’m not a type of person to cheat. Yea It’s funny though because I can’t truly tell if a guy is going to cheat on me until they do so. In My recent breakup I never suspected a thing even though I could see him talking with the other girl but I gave him the benefit of the doubt and he broke my trust in him when he did cheat, at least he told me.

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lindir #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

I am busy asking myself the exact same question!!
Today i just found out that my bf has been seeing his ex gf! This explains why he hasnt spoken to me in 2 days.

I thnk that guys are caught up in this so called game that they play!
Girls play games or have a bit of fun from time to time but we think about the future. We know when to stop playing when we have found something good- whereas guys dont know when to stop. They dont know when enough is enough! They are inconsiderate of others feelings! Only a hand full of them really understand what it feels like to be cheated on, and thats only because they have probably been cheated on too.

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delgirl4 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 4 months ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Yea u think if they have been cheated on then they would learn that it would hurt thier gf a lot if they cheat on her. Its just bad news no one wants to hear.

I don’t think many people believe in love any more, it’s sad but possibly true.

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lindir #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

yea, it is very sad… I believe in it. I just wish i could find it or it could find me. Why do we have to be hurt so many times before we find true love??

“Love suffers long and is kind,
love does not envy, love does not parade itself,
it is not puffed up, Love does not behave rudely,
does not seek its own, is not provoked and thinks no evil,
love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth
love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things endures all things.
Love never fails….”
1Corinthians 13 (4-8)

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delgirl4 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 4 months ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Ok thank you everyone Im off for now bye

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Monoxide 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I have cheated before, and now that i look back i really dont no why i did it,i guess i was looking for something more (cheating was not the way i should have went about it)

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Hereford, F7, GB | 4 months ago (3 hours, 57 minutes after post)

cos they always think that they can get it better from someone else and they dont know howlucky they are until they’ve lost it and they can never go back.

all they ever think about is the dicks and thats it as long as thats happy thats all that matters, they dont care if someone else gets hurt in the process aslong as it aint them!!!

sorry

xxxxxx

Monoxide 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

I agree

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

why do boys cheat on with ex girlfriends because when one girl is not give what then want the boys think why not call up my ex girlfriend she will give me what i wnat and needs because your not …. and it head when the girl find out and suff becausae i had it done many time to me and suff …. now i think i will love some day and i did …. but girls when your man think that you are not go to give him what he need to better beacause he will cheat on you with his ex girlfriend

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

i think the best way to not find a boyfriend who cheats is to not look for one. maybe sometimes people just need to let loose. flirt a little dont try to find a good relationship let it find yuh. jst have fun being single. the special man will come :D

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (3 months after post)

i recently hooked up with my ex boyfriend he fooled me, telling me he wanted me back.. he used me and when he was telling me how much he loved me he forgot to mention he had a girlfriend. im not a cheater so i ended wat ever we had but it still sick. If a guy cheats he’ll do it again cause he’ll think he can get away with it which he can. Which is why people can’t let their boy/girlfriends get away with cheating they have to dumb their *****

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