Family help: i am scared…i want to talk to sum1….i just want to - Help.com

What did you do? Is the rest of your family with your Dad? What’s happening with him?

someone’s here. Why is your dad in the hospital? And what did you do? No one will judge you here.

I’m here darling! Why are you scared ? May i help u? What did u do?

I’m sorry to hear that. I’m sure the hospital is taking very good care of him, though. Hang in there, we’ll all say a little prayer for you.

Calm down sweetheart ! It can happen that your dad will be very soon ok! Why you don’t go to hospital to see him?Say some prayers God will help you surely

*hugs* I’m so sorry… he’s in good hands now, and most likely he will pull through this and then you’ll be able to see him… but for now he needs the attention of doctors!! Is there a neighbor you can stay with for a little while, someone to talk to?

I understand you ! It’s hard to face a situation like that! I think you should say a prayer i’m sure will make you feel better hug 4 u

Oh, I’m so sorry… didn’t realize he was in another country… well hang in there, and hopefully soon there will be some news… he knows you love him and you’re sending good thoughts to him….

we are all here to help u don’t be afraid, we are all here to talk with u

Well, hopefully he’ll have some time to talk with you a little later… hang in there… try to find something to do to keep busy while you wait… chat here, write in a journal… Maybe you can write a letter to your Dad?

Oh, he’s that kind of boyfriend… he got what he needed and then ran out of time???

friends are here to listen to you and help you get through this.

a journal can really help trust me

He sounds rather selfish then, if he’s not there for you, but only there when HE wants something??

tonight try to see if you can find a friend instead of your boyfriend. or come here. your boyfriend should not be trying to “get physical” with you when you’re upset like this.

I’m sorry it sounds like he was at least there with you, but not really there on an emotional level for you. Well, some people just don’t know how to help very well either… maybe he feels awkward and doesn’t know quite how to make you feel better. Maybe he’s never been through anything like this.

It’s true, sometimes when we’re upset we just need some closeness to try to feel better… I can understand. It’s OK… what’s done is done and it’s understandable you needed someone last night. It’s just too bad it didn’t really make you feel better in the end, because now you feel bad about how he’s acting too. Maybe it’s made you realize that he is not a very good boyfriend after all …

Well, give him time and hopefully he’ll respond to you soon. What’s he doing right now??

No, I don’t think you’re expecting too much from him… he should be there for you when you need comfort…

Was last night the first time with your b/f

It sort of sounds like you needed comfort from him, and he took advantage of the situation… ??

Your dad is in a hospital in Saudi Arabia and this guy wants to “get physical” with you, with total disregard for what you’re going through. Not condemning you . . . you just need to lose this guy, because he is the epitome of selfishness. I want to tell all of you women out there who are suffering abusive treatment from boyfriends . . . you can do better! You do NOT have to SETTLE for a jerk! Some of you think that if you ditch a jerk, you’ll never have a boyfriend or man in your life ever again. The truth is, if you stay with a jerk, you will never have a man, because a jerk is not a man–he’s a spoiled boy who’s never matured into manhood. Good grief, ladies–LOSE those guys! Now, you need to get in touch with your dad and give him your love and support. Don’t tell him about your boyfriend or what happened. That one thing does NOT define you or set the course for the rest of your life.