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Did he apologize for what he did on your birthday? Don’t be a doormat.

If he hooked up with a girl on your birthday, does it really matter if he did NOT hook up with two other girls later? You want those feelings for him to go away? Then imagine him in a pink tutu, hunched over the cat litter box, and eating what the cat put in there. That should do the trick!

I agree with eip03.
Still keep your head cold, consider what you hear but don’t make conclusions based on rumors, judge after you know the facts.

ok, listen… There seem to be certain things you dont know about the situation for sure. In these cases, we cant assume anything for the obvious reason that it may not be true. But if you know for sure he was with someone else on your b-day then i’d say that’s enough to end any relationship. And although you may feel like he was in the wrong the whole time (am im sure you’re right), i think it’s important to apologize for anything unnessesarily(spelling?) hurtful you may have said after the fact. Being extremely angry and extremely frustrated with him is OK. But saying things that hit a person right where it hurts doesnt get anyone anywhere. And if your intentions are to stay friends then i would recommend you apologize for anything in that nature. But DO NOT apologize for being angry. :)

Hope that helps.

I think you should apologize if it’s true that someone else lied about this whole thing. Someone here is lying though… and they are the ones who should REALLY be apologizing to everyone involved… so… who is the real liar???